One evening after school we went over to the pumpkin patch and handful of carnival rides that we can see from the highway. It’s expensive for what it is, with the rides all being pretty quick and forgettable, but I kept our activities within some clear parameters as we all had a good time, even if I still hate bumper cars.

A week before Halloween was the Halloween carnival at the elementary school. This is always a fun one for the boys, and it was the first year that it was Aaron’s school too! As usual, they had lots of little activities set up around the schoolyard to play and win prizes at. I really enjoyed the photographer who got a great picture of the boys and I (rare, since I’m usually holding the camera!) and I’m grateful that the pumpkins the boys picked out from the little pumpkin patch there weren’t too big for the walk back to the car.

Over the weekend we met up with my friend James at Hiller Aviation Museum. With MJ traveling throughout a chunk of October, it was nice to have another adult join me on a Halloween-themed adventure! In this case, it was a pumpkin drop from a helicopter, because, why not?

They had kids sign their name on the pumpkin that would be dropped, which was fun until Aaron realized the pumpkin would be completely smashed upon landing, along with his name. Oops.

They had Halloween-themed games and crafts set up throughout the space, and then a “Haunted Hanger” with a TON of spooky decorations throughout their exhibit space. We enjoyed making our way through the exhibits before the pumpkin drop, but we wasted no time getting outside in time to see the pumpkin get loaded into the helicopter and take off.

They had everyone stand behind a temporary fence and look away as little rocks and dust were kicked up during take-off, and then we all got to go over to the runway fence to see the helicopter actually drop the pumpkin. It did a couple loops before the drop and I have to admit, the actual drop was a little anticlimactic. We were close, but a pumpkin compared to a runway is quite small! Still, it was an amusing activity, and if nothing else the boys LOVED being so close to a running helicopter. Me too.

See that little dot? That’s the pumpkin.

The next day the boys and I glimpsed outside to see some gloom and potential rain, but there was another Halloween activity to get to! The park next to the school the boys go to was hosting a Halloween Make-a-thon where kids got to go to various tables to do crafts. It’s the first year they did it, and all of the volunteers seemed pretty overwhelmed with the constant flow of kids clamoring to do the crafts – even with the threatening weather! I suspect they need a bit more organization and volunteers next year, but I see a lot of potential.

As the event wound down, we went to the indoor space where I enjoyed making Halloween-themed magic wands more than anyone else, but Adam got to finish his scavenger hunt, which was quite satisfying for him. When we went to leave, the rain had finally showed up, so we waited a few minutes for it to calm down before our soggy walk back to the car, but thankfully we didn’t get too wet.

The final activity before Halloween was pumpkin carving. After work on Thursday, the day before Halloween, was the time we chose for it because of how quickly the pumpkins grow mold here, even when outside in the shade. We had someone over who has been helping with the boys, and she was delighted to help Adam carve his giant pumpkin into a cat, and Aaron and I got to work on the bat design he picked.

The both came out beautifully, but I’m glad I didn’t give in to their request to carve any more, because as expected, the adults did the vast majority of the work. Still, we had fun and the boys were enthusiastic throughout the whole process.

And then it was Halloween! MJ was home for Halloween and donned a Zoo Keeper costume, since he’d be herding around a cat and a bat all evening as we trick-or-treated. I went with a witch costume, and joked we were going with the classics this year. Our old au pair and current au pair joined us for the evening as well, which was really nice. We stay always stay in our neighborhood for Halloween, which gives us an opportunity to see and meet neighbors.

We also have several neighbors who go all out with Halloween decorations and activities, some of which are scarier than others. And enough of our neighbors in general participate in the holiday so the walking:candy ratio is perfect for us.

The boys got to bed much later than expected as they raided their candy bowls, enjoyed handing out candy to other kids who came later, and generally got to enjoy spending time with Gaby and Rebeca. It was a great night.

But first, we decorated! I’ve been putting up Halloween lights for the past few years, and the boys have enjoyed putting up their own decorations that they buy at the dollar store or Target. Adam asked for a smoke machine and a lot more elaborate decorations, but he’s still only six years old and if carving pumpkins is any indication, I’d be the one doing all the work 10 minutes after he got bored with it, hah! Maybe in a few years.

The first Saturday was spent at Joan’s Farm and Pumpkin Patch in Livermore, which we arrived at just after they opened at 10AM. I’d been searching for an autumn activity with the boys that had the right mix of activities that we’d all be happy, but also wouldn’t be overly expensive. This place checked all the boxes. It was a little bit of a drive out to Livermore, but I got wristbands for the boys so they had unlimited activities, from a giant bouncy slide to pumpkin bowling, a corn maze, and hayrides.

They got to visit with animals on the farm, and pick out pumpkins, with Adam naturally picking one of the largest he could find. We even managed to get lunch there, which both the boys actually ate, before running off to activities again.

Back in town, we grabbed dinner at one of our favorite local restaurants before heading off to our evening activity: A dinosaur-themed unhaunted house at a local nature center! Parking was a bit of a nightmare and I don’t think we scheduled enough time to enjoy the Halloween carnival, but these are good things to know for next year. The unhaunted house was fun, with Aaron getting to pet some animals and all of us learning a bit about dinosaurs and their descendants.

The carnival portion was pretty cute, with various little stands set up where the boys could play games and then their favorite activity, jumping around in a big inflatable bubble with balloons floating all around.

We spent the next day closer to home. After morning swim class, the boys helped me replace the artificial grass in the back yard that we have covering a section of tile (mostly broken) and slab concrete we have out back. It’s not the solution I want for the back yard, it feels quite wasteful to change out the fake grass every few years, but until we can plan for a nicer back yard, this is a good middle ground to making it usable.

Adam also helped me rearrange the furniture and play things out there, which has all been a nice change. What was not a nice change was discovering wasps in our big umbrella out there, but fortunately the cooler weather seems to be dispensing with them naturally.

For my part, I repeated the IBM LinuxONE AI Arcade that we did at the Red Hat Summit back in the spring, with a few adjustments. Our footprint was smaller (2 laptops instead of 4) and I made some tweaks. The biggest change was that during the sandbox (expo) opening Block Party on Monday evening I did a “Doom takeover” of the whole setup and let people play Freedoom, VNC-streamed directly from one of our IBM LinuxONE virtual machines. It was a huge hit. So much so that for the rest of the week we had folks dropping by the booth to ask if I still had it up, and a few commands later, I did! Using Windows laptops for all of this was certainly a new experience, so I was grateful that I thought to test it on a Windows 11 laptop we keep around for such things before the event. Did you know stock PowerShell on Windows 11 comes with SSH? Cool. But overall, aside from being fun to answer the question of “but does it run Doom?” with a demonstration, we all know that piping something over VNC isn’t that technically challenging, it’s the amusement and feeling it grants, and the fact that it’s coming from IBM, not some hip new startup where you may be more inclined expect it.

What else is cool? Quantum computers. They had an 80% scale model near the entrance to the Sandbox this year and it got near constant attention. It took until Wednesday until I was able to find a quiet moment to get a good picture with it. I’ve been reading about quantum computers since I first picked up an article about them in Discover Magazine back in the 1990s, so seeing them come together at IBM and be actively deployed to facilities around the world has been a thrilling experience.

And I know you’ll say the AI stuff currently taking over everything in the world is overblown, and it is, but there are some real use cases for it. IBM clients across industry and research have already come up with dozens of uses for AI/ML, just been waiting for the tech to catch up. As a result, IBM research has invested heavily for YEARS in AI hardware, which first came to market in an AI accelerator in the IBM Telum chip inside the IBM z16 and LinuxONE 4 a few years ago.

This year the Telum II came out in the z17 and LinuxONE Emperor 5, but the additional IBM Spyre AI Accelerator card using the same technology also hit the market. This SOC with 32 individual accelerator cores has definitely been the belle of the ball, with clients asking all week when they can get their hands on one (thankfully, it was swiftly announced that it would go Generally Available at the end of October). Theft jokes abounded once people learned that we had a non-working prototype inside of the IBM z17 plexiglass at our booth, and when I went to visit the new IBM Power 11 server at the Power booth I found they had a prototype you could HOLD at their booth! That’s where I got my photo with it. You see, these work in the Power systems as well.

Back at the IBM booth I got to hold a Telum II dual-chip module (DCM) which is always a delight. They also had display versions of the chips from the z15, z16 (Telum), and the new z16 (Telum II) which was neat to see side by side. I need to remind my friends who I spoke with a few months back about assembling a “petting zoo” of decommissioned hardware to bring to events, I love holding these things. Lots of nerdy technologists do, and when else would we get the chance for something like a mainframe component? Even if you have a mainframe, you really shouldn’t go poking around inside it.

Ferrari is also cool. IBM worked with Scuderia Ferrari on an AI-powered app (and more!), and if the keynote interview was any indication, both organizations are quite excited about it. Plus, we got to have what I’ve been told is one of the F1 cars from last year right there in the sandbox. It was beautiful. I bought a hat.

Also also cool? Lego. You know I love Lego, but a lot of other adults are waking up to the passion and it’s definitely boiling over in the tech industry with a lot of folks being more open about their collections in recent years. This has definitely leaked out into tech conferences I’ve been at these past few years. Booths offering custom minifig building, others doing custom Lego sets for attendees. It was super cute to see a Lego model of the Sandbox where the team there was collecting feedback of the event, both verbally and by having people vote with Lego.

And of course, when the IBM z16 came out we build a full-size model, which I wrote about here back in 2023. How do we follow that? I was absolutely delighted that this time around they focused on the IBM Telum II processor, by making a huge scaled-up model of it. Hanging next to the plexi, this model was based off of how the actual processor looks, but with whimsical details like frogs, robots, and airplanes to amusingly demonstrate various parts. I plan on writing more about this later, and my partner in writing this may have some surprises in store for something you can do at home too. Stay tuned!

Perhaps my favorite part of the event, and indeed a highlight of my year, was being invited to join PJ Catalano and Camillo Sassano to unbox a mainframe live on the expo hall floor. Normally such an unboxing is done quietly before the event so that people can see it in the final form, but PJ’s idea of a live unboxing built excitement. We had pre-event teasers, there were cool lights pointed at the crate during the opening party with signs to come back the next day, and it all resulted in well over 150 people trying to secure a great spot to watch it being unboxed.

It was my first time participating in uncrating a mainframe, so Camillo walked me through it live right there as PJ explained each step and why each component of the crate was in place. It was fascinating to see if all come apart and learn about how purpose-built the whole thing was. The crate door is not just a door, it’s the ramp! The mini flip up section on the top was so it could be built to fit inside a standard truck. And so much more. Once we gently rolled it out of the crate, we got it on the carpet and started putting the doors on. The doors can be put on either side, so on one side we put an IBM Z door, and on the other we put the LinuxONE door. Choose your mainframe! Or get a photo with both!

I hear the events team is putting together a full video of the unboxing from all the cameras they set up, but for now I was happy to be the first one to get to hug it for Hug Your Mainframe Day. Naturally, I hugged the LinuxONE side. After me, the whole rest of the event there was a steady stream of people getting their pictures with it, and hugging it. The IBM shop on-site even had t-shirts celebrating hugging mainframes, which was super fun (of course I got one).

At the end of the event, we didn’t do a formal packing up, but thankfully enough folks were still around to get the job done.

Throughout the event there were also a lot of pure fun things. A huge rainbow slide that Mae and I partook in a slide down. Lots of video games, including the ability to play Mario Kart on the keynote stage screen when it wasn’t otherwise engaged. There were spots for getting photos, one for silly photos and another across the expo hall for headshots. For an event with long days and so much serious content literally spread throughout the expo hall in the form of tech talks and sessions, it was nice that we had the ability to unwind and recharge before going on to the next thing. The event also featured an evening at Universal Islands of Adventure, where we really got to unwind! I was able to ride on Hagrid’s Magical Creatures Motorbike Adventure and the unforgettable Jurassic World VelociCoaster. I spent a good chunk of my late 20s and early 30s unable to go on such rides, which I also now realize was the height of when I suffered from migraines as an adult. Huh. Something was going on in my brain for a good decade there, but it seems like I’m in a better place now. While these rides are still thrilling and trigger a tinge motion sickness for me, it’s no more than the normal amount now, and the fun balances it out.

At the beginning of this post I mentioned that IBM has been doing cool stuff since the company began, which leads me to my last notable mention: the booth from the IBM Corporate Archives. I’m a fan of history, including the history of computing, so I have bias here, but I honestly believe in telling the continuous story of innovation at IBM. The booth featured a couple working vintage machines, including one that was hooked up to a large dot matrix printer and attendees could print out short messages on.

They also had a glass case display that changed daily featuring various pamphlets and memorabilia from various initiatives and notable releases over the years. The moon landing! The launch if the IBM System/360! All kinds of cool stuff. And what I considered the star of the exhibit and which welcomed attendees as they walked to the booth, an IBM System/360 Model 40 Operator’s Console. Love it.

I have really enjoyed seeing how this conference has evolved over the past three years to be bigger and better each year, and truly more fun and geeky. It’s a lot of work, but I can’t wait to see what they have and I get to participate in next year.

Things kicked off on Monday as I worked with Maemalynn of The Linux Foundation to get ready for our full afternoon of Open Mainframe Project talks in two rooms beginning at 1:30PM. I want to start off by saying that I had a wonderful time on the Program Committee this year with Mae, Fernando Rijo Ceden, and Donna Hudi. We have fun together, and everyone brings a unique perspective to the line-up, any one of us missing from the committee this year would have changed the agenda quite a bit. Plus, we were all on top of last minute schedule changes due to speaker cancellations and adjustments that needed to be made. I think this comes from all of us deeply caring about the topic and community, which is so important

Lyz, Mae and Fernando, and I know Donna was with us in spirit even though she couldn’t make it to the event!

One of my favorite things was setting up a “birthday card” to celebrate the 10th anniversary of the project, where we had people write notes and sign their name – and they did! We had great support from speakers too who would remind people to sign it.

Birthday card part one, there was a whole second one!

Our rooms had a great location in the venue, right across from secondary registration at the Hilton. Sarah Julia Kriesch and I gave a talk in the opening time slot to a packed room – a trend that would continue all day. Next year we’ll request bigger rooms! We gave an update on the Linux Distributions Working Group and gave a lot of information about how others can get involved in the mainframe ports of various distributions. You can grab a PDF of our slides here: How_to_Contribute_to_Linux_on_the_Mainframe_-_IBM_TechXchange_2025.pdf

From there I saw Galasa talk from Louisa Denly. I’ve watched the progress of Galasa since before it was an Open Mainframe Project and it was being presented on Terminal Talk, back in early 2021. The induction into The Open Mainframe Project has been a great move to improve visibility to the project and do things like participate in the summer mentorship opportunities run by The Linux Foundation. Louisa’s talk covered some key ways that the project has progressed technically, and it was really great to see.

Then Kathleen Nordstrom of Broadcom gave a talk on “Skill Up! Mainframe Learning for All” where she quickly covered the work of the Mainframe Open Education project. If you haven’t seen their work and are interested, I have really enjoyed going through their Mainframe Open Education GitBook again and seeing how it’s grown (and where it still needs to fill in some gaps!). There’s a ton of free, entry to medium level education out there for folks who are mainframe-curious and this is a great place to start.

A group photo was taken before I found my fellow panelists and headed over to the Open Source track. It meant that I missed the last couple hours of The Open Mainframe Project event, but having additional content in another part of the event expanded our reach that much more, and I was delighted to learn that all the talks were still quite full! My worries of splitting the audience turned out to be unfounded.

Over in the open source track I joined my fellow mainframers, Len Santalucia, Steven Perva, and Louisa Denly, on a panel called “Dispelling the Myths Around Open Source on the Mainframe.” In this panel, we talked about security, support, and contributing, but it was also very audience-driven. One of the thing I learned while on this panel was from an audience member who shared how self-driven the next generation of technologists are, and how they expect to get support from their peers online, and generally expect documentation and other things to be public. This is definitely a departure from what I’ve traditionally seen in the mainframe world, and an interesting evolution in technology in general where open is becoming the default. I think this is doubly true in a world with AI chat bots that you can feed public documentation from and get answers without digging through 300 pages of dense technical documentation.

From there we had three more open source plus mainframe talks in the room. First up was David Frenzel who gave an excellent talk on “COBOL Meets Gradle: Streamlining z/OS Builds with Open Source” where he shared the Gradle plugin they developed for building COBOL applications. This kind of tooling is so important for getting the rest of your organization on board with building mainframe tooling, and consolidating your tech teams. No longer should the mainframe team be separated from the rest of your SREs. Everyone should use open tools like Gradle, just like everyone should use open tools like Grafana! Which leads me to the next talk in the room, David Harris of Grafana joined Anthony Papageorgiou to talk about “Grafana for the mainframe: lifting the lid on the black box”. I really enjoyed this Grafana talk because once again, it’s integrating tooling that the rest of the organization is interested into your IBM z/OS workflows. Taking a step back, you can see what’s going on with ALL of your systems, without the previous silos between operating systems.

The track, and day, concluded with Sarah Julia Kriesch doing a talk fully devoted to The Linux Distributions Working Group where she gave folks in our open source track a tour of the group and how we’re achieving our goals.

But that wasn’t all our content for the IBM TechXchange 2025 conference! The Open Mainframe Project event page has details of other sessions we had scattered throughout the week, and the ones I had the pleasure of attending were great. Over in the User Group Pavilion, Fernando provided an overview of The Open Mainframe Project. Helpfully, it was 1. in the session catalog (unlike our talk last year!) and 2. scheduled right before a SHARE event in the same space, so in addition to the planned attendees, we saw mainframers start to drop in throughout the session, hooray!

I also had the pleasure of seeing Jan Prihoda of Broadcom present “Beyond DevOps: Unlocking New Possibilities with Zowe” at one of the Tech Stages in the expo hall. Integrating so many of the talks into the expo hall was an interesting move, and I thought I’d be really bothered by the noise, but for me I found that the space being gigantic and the use of microphones for the talks made up for most of that. Plus, it was great to just be able to wander through the expo hall and drop in on a talk. For Jan’s, the space was also overflowing, with only a few little cubes to sit on, we had dozens of people standing for his session. It was good too, I’m glad he’s out there promoting the various use cases of Zowe so it doesn’t get tagged as just a DevOps tool. His demonstrations of usage with Ansible in his session were excellent.

Finally, I was really happy to continue my involvement with Michelle Kovac and the Open Source team by scheduling several booth slots over in the Open Source Zone of the expo hall. These 2-hour slots allowed projects to more casually show off their projects and chat with attendees. I was able to grab Mae to do a shift generally on The Open Mainframe Project, where she also took the opportunity to get more notes and signatures on the birthday card! And then both Joe Winchester of Zowe and Louisa of Galasa did shifts for their respective projects.

It was definitely the best year yet for Open Mainframe at TechXchange, and I was able to continue that with the fully open source demos I was showing off at the booth, but that story is for another day!

This year for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we also finally got to attend services in-person! With chaotic young kids, and then last year with some colds sweeping through the house, we were glad to finally take advantage of this opportunity. We started small, by just attending the afternoon family services for both holidays, but it was nice to be back in-person for the holidays, and to start meeting people. We’ve also started on our path to get the boys to weekly religious school there, which we’re all looking forward to.

We also enjoyed apples and honey around Rosh Hashanah, and Aaron helped me make a round challah, which actually came out quite lovely this year!

Celebrations continued when I returned from a work trip as we went over to the synagogue for a young children event for Sukkot. They had a big sukkah set up, and in collaboration with PJ library had a bunch of activities arranged, from a story time to crafts and coloring, followed by lunch.

Kids also got to wave the lulav and etrog with our Rabbi, which Aaron took part in.

The kids were pretty excited about Sukkot and are really interested in building our own sukkah. Timing of my work travel this year made it impossible, but maybe we’ll see what we can do next year.

And unrelated to the holidays but related to family, MJ’s Uncle Dick and his wife were visiting San Francisco recently while on a cruise. Squeezed right between my work trip and one MJ had to leave for, we met them for a lovely dinner on the Embarcadero. I had only met MJ’s uncle once, and he’d never met the boys, so it was nice to get together, even if the boys were on the tired side and were mostly glued to TV on their phones.

Afterwards, we dropped them back at the cruise terminal where the boys were jealous that they got to sleep on a boat, but they did perk up a bit post-meal and were able to be a little social. I’m glad we were able to conclude the evening on that note.

It was the first time I’d been to see a movie with just Adam, and all decked out in our matching Wallace and Gromit accessories we had a lot of fun together.

The next day Aaron was like a new person (one day cold?) and we were able to keep our whole family plans to head up to San Francisco for MUNI Heritage Weekend! This is one of our favorite events of the year, and we try to go every year. The booths are always a delight, and we picked up some MUNI merch (puzzle! socks!).

This year we didn’t get to ride the boat tram (lines were excessively long) but we did get to ride on the Melbourne car up to Pier 39 where we requested to get off so we could do some pier adventures and have lunch.

There we also got to see car 578, “America’s oldest passenger streetcar still on the active roster of an urban transit agency, and one of the oldest operating electric streetcars in the world,” as it was turning around at the Pier. And then the boat tram while we were waiting for a regular street car to take us back to the plaza.

Unfortunately we didn’t go on any bus rides this year, but we did get to see the vintage buses!

The following weekend we managed to get to our local Legoland! We were told about this place by our first au pair, Claudia, who invited us to come down with her husband. We’ve been meaning to go with them for ages, so it was great to finally go. It’s located in a mall in Millbrae, and it’s not huge but we had no problem spending over three hours there. Lots of little building stations, they were doing Halloween-themed activities throughout, and the boys enjoyed everything.

They also had a Creative Workshop where we got to build witches!

We did the little “train” ride 3 or 4 times, and enjoyed the 4D theater for a fun little movie.

I was particularly enamored with the center feature of the place where they built a bunch of local landmarks from all around the bay area, the central part being San Francisco, including a BART train.

It was a fun day, and now the boys keep asking to go back. It’s definitely on our list!

The Castro Valley Fall Festival took place on September 6th and 7th. The first day the boys got to visit a petting zoo, but the day was cut a bit short by a kiddo stomach ache.

We went back for day two so we could walk through the whole festival, and the boys enjoyed going on a bungee bouncing thing.

Last week I was able to sneak out for an evening to go see Hamilton at our local theater. The 10th anniversary release was really fun to see, even if I didn’t quite anticipate spending 3 hours on it. It included an introduction with interviews from the original cast reflecting on the experience and anniversary, and also included a 10 minute intermission. It all took me back to where I was 10 years ago, and just how much I loved the whole Hamilton experience as I fell in love with the soundtrack, and finally saw the show live in San Francisco.

The boys have continued swim classes, which are going well but they changed pools on us recently, which means we don’t have the fun opportunity to see an Amtrak train zooming through on a perfectly timed journey to the pool now. Fortunately, on our last Sunday at the last pool we got to see it, and the pool they moved us to is actually a lot nicer and isn’t much further away.

Day to day there’s been a lot of playing with our new cat, Zara, and doing little tasks around the house. The other day Adam helped me vacuum out the van so we could install a new all-weather mat in the back. MJ and I have been going through some paperwork to continue our organization project and clear out some of our storage areas.

I’ve also been trying, unsuccessfully, to resurrect one of our old servers. We have a couple small systems that we used for backups and media when we lived in San Francisco, but over time the raid arrays on those spinning disks died and the systems failed. I figured that bringing them back up would just be a matter of replacing the disks and doing some reconfiguration, but it’s been dreadful. VGA output appeared to have failed on one of the mother boards, so I moved everything over to the other system and then I was getting inconsistent booting even after I sorted out UEFI. I finally got it booted and the RAID5 array built, rebooted it, and VGA this system isn’t working, even in POST. Argh. Why? I guess it’s my fault trying to bring back old x86 systems. Even if it had worked, it wouldn’t be satisfying like getting my RISC-V SBC going a few months ago. Right now it’s just a disappointing time sink. I might try a few more things, but I’m close to giving up and starting again with new hardware and a more modern disk configuration.

And while I’m talking about old hardware, I hauled out my never-used Mycroft Mark I device recently. That’s been causing me a lot of headaches too, but at least there’s more novelty to it. I’ll write up a full blog post about it if I ever do get it running with something interesting. Right now I might be facing some hardware issues AND a system that’s simply too old to run some of the home assistant software that lives in the forks designed for it. I guess I’ll see how it goes. Computers, man.

Their former au pair, Rebeca, made them signs!

But the summer season wasn’t over yet! The final week of our local swim lagoon being opened lasted a couple weeks past the start of school, so our au pair took the boys one Friday afternoon after school. I tagged along with my work laptop in case she needed help with anything (she didn’t!) and so I could soak up some of the summer weather too inside the beach tent with my laptop.

After being dormant last year following some necessary, but invasive, pruning our plum tree is back this year with lots of plums! The boys have been helping me pick and eat them, and we grabbed a couple pounds to once again make some of our annual plum jam.

And then we picked a bunch of apples from the apple tree and I made apple butter for the first time. I used this recipe and would probably let it cook a bit longer to thicken it up more next time, but I think it came out really nicely. Next time I’ll also need to be more careful with my arm while chopping 5lbs of tiny apples, my elbow has been howling for days. I also need to figure out more things to do with apple butter, but so far putting it on toasted challah and waffles have both been winning approaches.

Our weekends have been rather laid back this month, one Saturday was particularly so when a transformer exploded down the street, plunging our whole neighborhood into an outage for nearly 20 hours. The explosion was so bad that it took out part of the top of the pole, there was a visible flame for about 20 minutes, and the fire department came by with a truck to close off the area until the power company arrived. Thankfully, there didn’t seem to be any other damage, and with a trickle from our solar panels (cloud day!) our Powerwalls remained charged enough to get us through the day. We were still careful about usage (oh no, I can’t do laundry or use the oven!) and it was cool enough that we didn’t need the air conditioning, but overall it was very nice to be able to get through almost a day of outage without it impacting our lives much.

We spent that Sunday afternoon in San Francisco to visit the new Nintendo store. MJ accurately described it as “a Disney store, but for Nintendo” and I was totally in love. On weekends they still have a line outside to make sure the store doesn’t get too packed, but it moved along quickly and we were able to pick up some goodies. Adam and I also got to play Mario Kart World on a massive screen, which was a ton of fun. Going with the boys was certainly a delight, especially with how much Adam loves Mario Kart, but I also snuck back a few days later to peruse things myself more slowly and buy a few things I had left behind.

In boring house stuff, we’ve been doing a lot of planning to get our storage situation more under control. We own some storage space in San Francisco, and are hoping to get that organized so we can begin to use that more effectively and empty out the garage a bit. It’s slow going, but honestly we just need to start chipping away at it. It was nice to discover a wire rack we had never opened while at the storage unit though, it fit perfectly in one of our closets here and meant I could get to work on some of that organization without buying anything, hurrah! I’ve also been working through a bunch of little tasks around the house, like changing filters, replacing a light bulb outside (more complicated than it sounds!), and replacing the steering wheel on Adam’s favorite fire truck toy. I’ll give myself a “C” on the fire truck fix, it works but I could have done better.

We also welcomed MJ’s friend Matti over for a few days this month. The boys really enjoyed seeing her, and she was kind enough to stay with the boys one night so MJ and I could take a little parent vacation at a hotel in the city. We hardly ever (never?) get away together for more than a meal, partially due to some family circumstances, but largely just a habit that was developed because we had young children during a pandemic. We really should find a way to make this happen more often.

That Saturday she was visiting was also Castro Valley Cruise Night, our annual event where classic car enthusiasts are invited to town to cruse up and down the Boulevard. I talk a lot about how much I love the events our town hosts, and this is one of the best. So many people come out, and we all love cars so it’s always such a pleasure to spend a little time at. Plus, we can easily walk there because we live downtown! So we walked over to dinner, and then leisurely walked home to enjoy the cars at sunset.

August wasn’t all roses though. Part of the reason we’ve been doing more chill weekends was because MJ injured his finger quiet badly while doing some household repairs a couple weeks ago, and the boys have been simply exhausted with their new school schedule. Adam has longer days, and Aaron is going to school every day now (instead of his previous M,W,F preschool schedule). It’s leading to a bit more grumpiness than we’re used to, and it’s clear the boys have really missed having time to just relax to TV or video games. Going on adventures is grand, but some days the heart just wants a whole lot of Minecraft and Bluey.

The boys got to see a lot of grandpa through afternoon visits all summer, but we were also there to celebrate his birthday with the whole family!

The Sunday following our return we went downtown to visit The Franklin Institute again. Yes, we had already been there, but this time we were meeting a friend and his daughter! The last time all three of us were together was long before any of us had kids, so it was quite the momentous gathering.

Plus, there were parts of the museum the boys wanted to re-visit or hadn’t seen the last time. Aaron got really into the interactive exhibits. Afterwards we went out for pizza.

On my own, I was able to take a long lunch one day to catch up with a friend over sushi and an evening to have dinner with a friend in King of Prussia. It reminded me how good it feels to catch up with friends, and there’s no reason my social life in Philly is more active than in California. I have friends in California too! Time to be better about planning outings with friends.

Later in the week I put a pause on work for an afternoon and took the boys out to the nearby Churchville Nature Center to visit the butterfly enclosure. We’re members and they have a lot of great little events, but this was the first time we’d been out there this trip. It was definitely a warm day to be outside, but not as bad as some of the other days have been, and the mist they provide for the butterflies definitely felt nice!

We spent Friday evening at The Academy of Natural Sciences in downtown Philadelphia for their event around Haddy returning to Dinosaur Hall. It was fun to see their newly installed Hadrosaurus foulkii, but mostly it was a good opportunity to visit the museum with the kids after hours. Afterwards, we had dinner at Victory Brewing Company. I’d never been to this “new” downtown location, but the vibes brought me back to the dozens of times I visited their brewery in Downingtown.

Our final week in town was rather chill, owing partially to do with some work stuff really picking up and causing us both to work a bit more than usual. But we still did a couple family visits and dinners, and over the final weekend in town we made our way out to our local model train shop where we picked up a few goodies, including some light-up tracks. Unfortunately, that evening I tripped in our den while working on some stuff with MJ and sprained my ankle, and badly bruised my shoulder. Ouch. This is the fourth time I’ve sprained this ankle (amusingly, it happens every 4 years) so I skipped the doctor and just tended to it at home. Still, no fun.

Outdoor time throughout the summer was mostly water-driven pursuits on the lawn with the hose or water guns and balloons. However, our final week there the weather cooled down a bit and allowed the boys to spend a bit more time outdoors riding their bikes! They love doing this in California but often find it’s too hot to do during a Philly summer.

Overall, it was a nice visit, and the six weeks flew by. It also felt like the right amount of time for me. I was definitely ready to come back to home prime when the time came, and our journey back to California was uneventful.

With MJ traveling, the boys and I spent the first Sunday of the month visiting a flea market in town, where I found a Disney’s Pinocchio picture vinyl – the same one my family had when I was a kid!

We then went over to The Chabot theater for an afternoon showing of the new live-action Lilo & Stitch. This is only the second time our boys had been to a movie theater, and the first time we went to one that wasn’t a special event. They did great! The movie was cute and the boys had a good time, but the live-action remakes aren’t really my thing.

I took Monday and Thursday off from work to do other summer things with Gaby (our au pair) and the boys. Monday it was a visit back to the Cull Canyon swimming lagoon for swimming! Unfortunately the weather was on the cooler side, so there weren’t a lot of people there and we were a bit chilly. We still had fun though, got to swim a bit, have some PB&J sandwiches, and try out the beach tent and wagon we bought after our first visit.

We picked up the wagon at Costco, and it collapses really nicely. The beach tent came from REI, and it’s not one of the easy pop-up ones, but setting it up is easily done with a single person and a few minutes of focus. It was actually good chilly and our visit to short to use the tent, but I could see it really coming in handy during longer visits on warmer days.

On my Thursday off I took everyone up to Fairyland in Oakland. It’s been on our list for a while, and I realized that at 4 and 6, Adam at least would age out of it in a couple years. Now was the perfect time to go! Gaby and I packed up a bunch of snacks and drove up. Parking was easy and it wasn’t busy when we arrived. The park is also celebrating their 75th anniversary this year, so at ticketing we got our Fairyland keys that were decorated with sparkles for the anniversary. So cute!

As one of the first theme parks, it inspired many others over the years, notably among them being Disneyland. I suspect it’s seen better days with fresher coats of paint, but these aren’t things that kids notice, and to Adam and Aaron it was one of their favorite days out in a while. There are lots of places to run and climb, there was a little train that we rode a couple times, and the carousel and Ferris wheel were kids-only, which they thought was pretty fun(ny). There was a giant (kids-only) dragon slide that they went down about a half dozen times, and they both thought it was hilarious to hide inside various little houses inspired by fairy tales.

We saw a puppet show at 11AM, during which we followed the lead of a bunch of other families in using the opportunity to have the kids enjoy their PB&J sandwiches. The Pinocchio puppet show was cute, but Aaron and I were quite distracted by a squirrel who understood it was lunch time and got very close to us in his efforts to take Aaron’s sandwich.

It was also great that they allow outside food, and even the in-park food didn’t seem wildly priced, maybe we’ll check it out next time. I think going on a Thursday morning was a good choice too, even if it required a day off from work, it meant there were virtually no lines and even the school groups that were there didn’t make the park feel full. In all, the place was pretty low-stress and enjoyable for all of us, as soon as we left the boys were asking when we could go again.

MJ returned from his work trip late on Thursday night, just in time for us to enjoy Father’s Day weekend! Saturday was spent at the annual Castro Valley Car Show. One of the reasons we delayed our trip to Philadelphia was to avoid missing local summer events like this, so it was nice that we got to go this year. Adam even found a Pontiac Firebird Trans Am, famously the same car that KITT is in Knight Rider, though this one was white and I think it was from 1983 (the one in the show is a 1982).

Sunday featured a trip out to the Hiller Aviation Museum for Father’s Day! They had some activities for the kids, but they didn’t seem too interested in them, so we skipped them in favor of the standing exhibits, including a 747 that we went in twice, and a large gallery of various other aircraft.

We also took the recommendation of a woman in the gift shop who said we should check out Sky Kitchen just across the runway at the San Carlos Airport for a kid-friendly lunch, which definitely hit the spot. Afterwards, it was easy to come back and check out a few things we didn’t get to before lunch, and to spend a little time in the gift shop. We also ended up getting a membership because we all really enjoyed it and there was more we wanted to see.

And then it was the countdown to our trip to Philadelphia! The boys and I finished a jigsaw puzzle that we’d been working on for a few weeks and I wanted to finish before we left.

I also took a long lunch one day and went bowling with Gaby and the boys to make sure we had our fun with the Kids Bowl Free pass once more before we left (though we will have some time in August to use it too). Leaving for six weeks is always a bit nerve-wracking for me as we prep the house, make sure we don’t forget anything, and get our house sitter all set up, but I paced myself as much as I could and made extensive use of lists, and it wasn’t as chaotic as it usually is. I’m definitely glad we didn’t leave right after school ended, it was really nice to do California summer for a little while before Philly summer began.