{"id":232,"date":"2003-09-16T16:52:00","date_gmt":"2003-09-16T16:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"\/?p=232"},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T07:00:00","slug":"irc-and-my-anti-social-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/princessleia.com\/journal\/2003\/09\/irc-and-my-anti-social-life\/","title":{"rendered":"IRC&#8230; and my anti-social life."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>o\/` Dishwalla &#8211; Counting Blue Cars o\/`<\/p>\n<p>Do I take IRC seriously? Sure. More seriously than a lot of people? Sure. Too seriously? No.<\/p>\n<p>I think it&#8217;s difficult for some people to understand the position I am currently in socially. I&#8217;m not a hermit, I&#8217;d go crazy if I didn&#8217;t have some sort of social interaction. There is only one person I see and interact with daily (Myk) and if I depended on him for all my social needs we&#8217;d both go crazy. What about real life friends? While I do have a couple people from &#8220;real life&#8221; that I&#8217;d consider friends, only one of them I honestly trust with telling most of what I feel. I don&#8217;t have any friends here with me near philly who have been my friends for longer than a year. I&#8217;ve been moving since I was 17&#8230;:<\/p>\n<p><lj-cut><br \/>\nCape Elizabeth, ME<br \/>\nBensalem, PA<br \/>\nBrockport, NY<br \/>\nSeneca Falls, NY<br \/>\nScottsville, NY<br \/>\nNorth Wales, PA<\/p>\n<p>4 years, 3 states, 6 towns (all 45+ minutes apart), 7 separate homes. It makes it near impossible to keep friends from these places. So two years ago, when I moved here to North Wales, I only had Myk. Without a car, a job or school it&#8217;s been impossible for me to meet people outside the circle of Myk&#8217;s current friends. I don&#8217;t mind that, I love Myk&#8217;s friends, and I&#8217;ve become friends with a few of them. But I don&#8217;t have that long time friendship with anyone here that creates a solid base for closeness.<\/p>\n<p>On IRC I do have a few friends of this sort. I&#8217;ve known <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livejournal.com\/users\/peacimowen\/\">Peacimowen<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livejournal.com\/users\/bamwv\">Bamwv<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xanga.com\/home.aspx?user=Tsukiyo\">Tsukiyo<\/a> for almost *5* years now. The only person I still communicate with who has been my friend longer is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xanga.com\/home.aspx?user=MorganHorse\">Leslie<\/a> who I&#8217;ve known since first grade. I also use IRC as a means of communicating with real life people that I know.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes down to it, my social world right now centers around IRC. It&#8217;s probably sad, but I&#8217;m happy, and I don&#8217;t think I drive Myk *too* crazy with wanting to go out and see friends. It&#8217;s worked out great for me. So of course I take the things seriously. And I do spend a lot of time on IRC, popping in throughout ever day while working on projects and writing things, dropping in for conversations with people.<\/p>\n<p>I took things with #deep13 seriously, and I decided to leave because it wasn&#8217;t comfortable for me anymore. I&#8217;ve spoken to many of the members since leaving, letting them know why and they all understand. I spoke to NegaWeapon today and he said &#8220;Yep.  Sounds about right.  &#8216;sides, you&#8217;re not officially a Deep13er until you&#8217;ve declared yourself no longer a Deep13er at least once.&#8221; *grin* Well, I suppose I&#8217;m right on schedule then, I&#8217;ll probably give it a chance again someday in the future. For now I will just concentrate on the other channels I&#8217;m in. I&#8217;m happy, no need to complicate my life further with the craziness of that place.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been working on all sorts of little things today. Now I am going to go do some more %) *wanders off*<\/p>\n<p><\/lj-cut><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>o\/` Dishwalla &#8211; Counting Blue Cars o\/` Do I take IRC seriously? Sure. More seriously than a lot of people? Sure. Too seriously? No. I think it&#8217;s difficult for some people to understand the position I am currently in socially. 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