One evening after school we went over to the pumpkin patch and handful of carnival rides that we can see from the highway. It’s expensive for what it is, with the rides all being pretty quick and forgettable, but I kept our activities within some clear parameters as we all had a good time, even if I still hate bumper cars.

A week before Halloween was the Halloween carnival at the elementary school. This is always a fun one for the boys, and it was the first year that it was Aaron’s school too! As usual, they had lots of little activities set up around the schoolyard to play and win prizes at. I really enjoyed the photographer who got a great picture of the boys and I (rare, since I’m usually holding the camera!) and I’m grateful that the pumpkins the boys picked out from the little pumpkin patch there weren’t too big for the walk back to the car.

Over the weekend we met up with my friend James at Hiller Aviation Museum. With MJ traveling throughout a chunk of October, it was nice to have another adult join me on a Halloween-themed adventure! In this case, it was a pumpkin drop from a helicopter, because, why not?

They had kids sign their name on the pumpkin that would be dropped, which was fun until Aaron realized the pumpkin would be completely smashed upon landing, along with his name. Oops.

They had Halloween-themed games and crafts set up throughout the space, and then a “Haunted Hanger” with a TON of spooky decorations throughout their exhibit space. We enjoyed making our way through the exhibits before the pumpkin drop, but we wasted no time getting outside in time to see the pumpkin get loaded into the helicopter and take off.

They had everyone stand behind a temporary fence and look away as little rocks and dust were kicked up during take-off, and then we all got to go over to the runway fence to see the helicopter actually drop the pumpkin. It did a couple loops before the drop and I have to admit, the actual drop was a little anticlimactic. We were close, but a pumpkin compared to a runway is quite small! Still, it was an amusing activity, and if nothing else the boys LOVED being so close to a running helicopter. Me too.

See that little dot? That’s the pumpkin.

The next day the boys and I glimpsed outside to see some gloom and potential rain, but there was another Halloween activity to get to! The park next to the school the boys go to was hosting a Halloween Make-a-thon where kids got to go to various tables to do crafts. It’s the first year they did it, and all of the volunteers seemed pretty overwhelmed with the constant flow of kids clamoring to do the crafts – even with the threatening weather! I suspect they need a bit more organization and volunteers next year, but I see a lot of potential.

As the event wound down, we went to the indoor space where I enjoyed making Halloween-themed magic wands more than anyone else, but Adam got to finish his scavenger hunt, which was quite satisfying for him. When we went to leave, the rain had finally showed up, so we waited a few minutes for it to calm down before our soggy walk back to the car, but thankfully we didn’t get too wet.

The final activity before Halloween was pumpkin carving. After work on Thursday, the day before Halloween, was the time we chose for it because of how quickly the pumpkins grow mold here, even when outside in the shade. We had someone over who has been helping with the boys, and she was delighted to help Adam carve his giant pumpkin into a cat, and Aaron and I got to work on the bat design he picked.

The both came out beautifully, but I’m glad I didn’t give in to their request to carve any more, because as expected, the adults did the vast majority of the work. Still, we had fun and the boys were enthusiastic throughout the whole process.

And then it was Halloween! MJ was home for Halloween and donned a Zoo Keeper costume, since he’d be herding around a cat and a bat all evening as we trick-or-treated. I went with a witch costume, and joked we were going with the classics this year. Our old au pair and current au pair joined us for the evening as well, which was really nice. We stay always stay in our neighborhood for Halloween, which gives us an opportunity to see and meet neighbors.

We also have several neighbors who go all out with Halloween decorations and activities, some of which are scarier than others. And enough of our neighbors in general participate in the holiday so the walking:candy ratio is perfect for us.

The boys got to bed much later than expected as they raided their candy bowls, enjoyed handing out candy to other kids who came later, and generally got to enjoy spending time with Gaby and Rebeca. It was a great night.

But first, we decorated! I’ve been putting up Halloween lights for the past few years, and the boys have enjoyed putting up their own decorations that they buy at the dollar store or Target. Adam asked for a smoke machine and a lot more elaborate decorations, but he’s still only six years old and if carving pumpkins is any indication, I’d be the one doing all the work 10 minutes after he got bored with it, hah! Maybe in a few years.

The first Saturday was spent at Joan’s Farm and Pumpkin Patch in Livermore, which we arrived at just after they opened at 10AM. I’d been searching for an autumn activity with the boys that had the right mix of activities that we’d all be happy, but also wouldn’t be overly expensive. This place checked all the boxes. It was a little bit of a drive out to Livermore, but I got wristbands for the boys so they had unlimited activities, from a giant bouncy slide to pumpkin bowling, a corn maze, and hayrides.

They got to visit with animals on the farm, and pick out pumpkins, with Adam naturally picking one of the largest he could find. We even managed to get lunch there, which both the boys actually ate, before running off to activities again.

Back in town, we grabbed dinner at one of our favorite local restaurants before heading off to our evening activity: A dinosaur-themed unhaunted house at a local nature center! Parking was a bit of a nightmare and I don’t think we scheduled enough time to enjoy the Halloween carnival, but these are good things to know for next year. The unhaunted house was fun, with Aaron getting to pet some animals and all of us learning a bit about dinosaurs and their descendants.

The carnival portion was pretty cute, with various little stands set up where the boys could play games and then their favorite activity, jumping around in a big inflatable bubble with balloons floating all around.

We spent the next day closer to home. After morning swim class, the boys helped me replace the artificial grass in the back yard that we have covering a section of tile (mostly broken) and slab concrete we have out back. It’s not the solution I want for the back yard, it feels quite wasteful to change out the fake grass every few years, but until we can plan for a nicer back yard, this is a good middle ground to making it usable.

Adam also helped me rearrange the furniture and play things out there, which has all been a nice change. What was not a nice change was discovering wasps in our big umbrella out there, but fortunately the cooler weather seems to be dispensing with them naturally.

This year for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we also finally got to attend services in-person! With chaotic young kids, and then last year with some colds sweeping through the house, we were glad to finally take advantage of this opportunity. We started small, by just attending the afternoon family services for both holidays, but it was nice to be back in-person for the holidays, and to start meeting people. We’ve also started on our path to get the boys to weekly religious school there, which we’re all looking forward to.

We also enjoyed apples and honey around Rosh Hashanah, and Aaron helped me make a round challah, which actually came out quite lovely this year!

Celebrations continued when I returned from a work trip as we went over to the synagogue for a young children event for Sukkot. They had a big sukkah set up, and in collaboration with PJ library had a bunch of activities arranged, from a story time to crafts and coloring, followed by lunch.

Kids also got to wave the lulav and etrog with our Rabbi, which Aaron took part in.

The kids were pretty excited about Sukkot and are really interested in building our own sukkah. Timing of my work travel this year made it impossible, but maybe we’ll see what we can do next year.

And unrelated to the holidays but related to family, MJ’s Uncle Dick and his wife were visiting San Francisco recently while on a cruise. Squeezed right between my work trip and one MJ had to leave for, we met them for a lovely dinner on the Embarcadero. I had only met MJ’s uncle once, and he’d never met the boys, so it was nice to get together, even if the boys were on the tired side and were mostly glued to TV on their phones.

Afterwards, we dropped them back at the cruise terminal where the boys were jealous that they got to sleep on a boat, but they did perk up a bit post-meal and were able to be a little social. I’m glad we were able to conclude the evening on that note.

It was the first time I’d been to see a movie with just Adam, and all decked out in our matching Wallace and Gromit accessories we had a lot of fun together.

The next day Aaron was like a new person (one day cold?) and we were able to keep our whole family plans to head up to San Francisco for MUNI Heritage Weekend! This is one of our favorite events of the year, and we try to go every year. The booths are always a delight, and we picked up some MUNI merch (puzzle! socks!).

This year we didn’t get to ride the boat tram (lines were excessively long) but we did get to ride on the Melbourne car up to Pier 39 where we requested to get off so we could do some pier adventures and have lunch.

There we also got to see car 578, “America’s oldest passenger streetcar still on the active roster of an urban transit agency, and one of the oldest operating electric streetcars in the world,” as it was turning around at the Pier. And then the boat tram while we were waiting for a regular street car to take us back to the plaza.

Unfortunately we didn’t go on any bus rides this year, but we did get to see the vintage buses!

The following weekend we managed to get to our local Legoland! We were told about this place by our first au pair, Claudia, who invited us to come down with her husband. We’ve been meaning to go with them for ages, so it was great to finally go. It’s located in a mall in Millbrae, and it’s not huge but we had no problem spending over three hours there. Lots of little building stations, they were doing Halloween-themed activities throughout, and the boys enjoyed everything.

They also had a Creative Workshop where we got to build witches!

We did the little “train” ride 3 or 4 times, and enjoyed the 4D theater for a fun little movie.

I was particularly enamored with the center feature of the place where they built a bunch of local landmarks from all around the bay area, the central part being San Francisco, including a BART train.

It was a fun day, and now the boys keep asking to go back. It’s definitely on our list!

The Castro Valley Fall Festival took place on September 6th and 7th. The first day the boys got to visit a petting zoo, but the day was cut a bit short by a kiddo stomach ache.

We went back for day two so we could walk through the whole festival, and the boys enjoyed going on a bungee bouncing thing.

Last week I was able to sneak out for an evening to go see Hamilton at our local theater. The 10th anniversary release was really fun to see, even if I didn’t quite anticipate spending 3 hours on it. It included an introduction with interviews from the original cast reflecting on the experience and anniversary, and also included a 10 minute intermission. It all took me back to where I was 10 years ago, and just how much I loved the whole Hamilton experience as I fell in love with the soundtrack, and finally saw the show live in San Francisco.

The boys have continued swim classes, which are going well but they changed pools on us recently, which means we don’t have the fun opportunity to see an Amtrak train zooming through on a perfectly timed journey to the pool now. Fortunately, on our last Sunday at the last pool we got to see it, and the pool they moved us to is actually a lot nicer and isn’t much further away.

Day to day there’s been a lot of playing with our new cat, Zara, and doing little tasks around the house. The other day Adam helped me vacuum out the van so we could install a new all-weather mat in the back. MJ and I have been going through some paperwork to continue our organization project and clear out some of our storage areas.

I’ve also been trying, unsuccessfully, to resurrect one of our old servers. We have a couple small systems that we used for backups and media when we lived in San Francisco, but over time the raid arrays on those spinning disks died and the systems failed. I figured that bringing them back up would just be a matter of replacing the disks and doing some reconfiguration, but it’s been dreadful. VGA output appeared to have failed on one of the mother boards, so I moved everything over to the other system and then I was getting inconsistent booting even after I sorted out UEFI. I finally got it booted and the RAID5 array built, rebooted it, and VGA this system isn’t working, even in POST. Argh. Why? I guess it’s my fault trying to bring back old x86 systems. Even if it had worked, it wouldn’t be satisfying like getting my RISC-V SBC going a few months ago. Right now it’s just a disappointing time sink. I might try a few more things, but I’m close to giving up and starting again with new hardware and a more modern disk configuration.

And while I’m talking about old hardware, I hauled out my never-used Mycroft Mark I device recently. That’s been causing me a lot of headaches too, but at least there’s more novelty to it. I’ll write up a full blog post about it if I ever do get it running with something interesting. Right now I might be facing some hardware issues AND a system that’s simply too old to run some of the home assistant software that lives in the forks designed for it. I guess I’ll see how it goes. Computers, man.

Our adventure to welcome a new cat has been in the works for a while. At first we weren’t ready, then life was just incredibly busy with life with two young children. But the desire to have a pet again was growing. We had to work out some details, like how we’d handle our summers in Philly (where does the litter box go at the townhouse?) and generally the additional load of caring for a pet when our lives are already so full. But the solutions trickled in and the benefits and positives finally won out.

And then when we were in Philly over the summer, the boys fell in love with a cat they saw at Petco. They went back and saw her several times, she was a very friendly tortoiseshell cat, but we couldn’t really adopt a cat across the country. Still, when we came home the boys insisted that they wanted a tortoiseshell cat. The search was on.

Our first encounter was via a local pet adoption agency, Nobody’s Perfekt Dogs and Cats. They are an incredibly dedicated group of volunteers who rehabilitate, foster, and find homes for animals that had some rough spots in their past. Given that we have two rambunctious boys, we didn’t think any of their animals, many recovering from trauma, would be a good fit, but they were local and they also have a shop of gently used pet items so we stopped by. We had a great conversation with their volunteers, and learned about a tortoiseshell cat in foster care who we were able to meet a couple weeks later, over Labor Day weekend. Alas, in spite of warming up to Aaron a little, we determined she was just too timid and scared for our noisy home, and we hope she finds a better fit, somewhere more peaceful.

But I was ready for this potential outcome. I had scoured shelters ahead of time and found a tortoiseshell-tabby (torbie) at the East Bay SPCA in Dublin, it was Zara!

I was cautiously optimistic since her listing called her friendly, but you really never know how cats are going to react to young children, especially a 4 and 6 year old who aren’t used to engaging with cats. But she surprised us all. As soon as Adam and I went into her room, she rubbed up against his legs, and he was instantly in love. Aaron took a little more getting used to because he was a bit more… excited, but even him she seemed fine with. And both MJ and I found her to be lovely. We filled out the paperwork, and brought her home!

We’re her second family, and her first family is the one that named her. Alas, we were told they surrendered her with the reason that she was an indoor/outdoor cat, but would disappear for days at a time outside, and that wasn’t working for them. With us she’s indoor-only, so we should be able to avoid that particular hurdle, unless she gets out. We’re looking at AirTags as a solution to her potentially escaping and disappearing, but that assumes she’s willing to wear a collar.

We did discover a benefit of being her second family through the same SPCA is that while we brought home an 11 month old, the SPCA had her kitten picture!

We kept her in the laundry room for the first 24 hours to get her used to us and the smells of a new home. We took turns going in and visiting with her, but also giving her some space to adjust. We built a brand new cat tree for her, which joined her in the laundry room that first day.

She was eager to explore though, and settled in pretty quickly once she had the run of the house on Monday (Labor Day) and we moved the cat tree into the family room. We had a pretty laid back day welcoming our new cat to our home, and the boys had a lot of fun playing with her.

She’s very people-centric, always wanting to be nearby someone. As soon as Gaby leaves to pick up Aaron from school, she comes into my office. When Aaron comes home, she’s off to play with him. Over night she’s been sleeping in our bedroom, after we extract her from the new game of trying to hide out with the boys to sleep with them. Temperament-wise, she can be very snuggly when she wants to be, but will let us know with a little bite or a swat if she has had enough. We do need to work on her scratching, since she likes to dig on carpets and there are a few heirloom chairs downstairs that she’s taken a particular liking to. I think that’s a surmountable challenge though.

A couple days in I noticed some blood on our bed, and a thorough inspection caused me to discover a wounded pad on her back right foot. I can’t imagine she got it with us, so I think it was a pre-existing wound that opened up with her getting to run and jump around a big house. I took her to the vet, which she wasn’t happy with me about, and was instructed to keep it clean by using some medical wipes they gave me twice a day. She isn’t super happy with me about that either. And unfortunately, I’m not sure it’s healing as much as we’d like to see at this stage, she has a follow-up at the vet appointment this Friday to see what our next steps are.

But back to the good things! The boys have been really great with her. Adam is very protective, and she’s been snuggling up on his lap while he plays video games. Aaron is learning how to be more gentle with her, but she’s tolerating the learning curve, especially since he’s the most fun human to play with around here. One of the most adorable things so far has been the boys building her little forts and beds, and then Zara actually sleeping in them!

MJ and I are totally in love with her too. She’s made a great addition to our family. And I hope she forgives me about the vet stuff soon.

Their former au pair, Rebeca, made them signs!

But the summer season wasn’t over yet! The final week of our local swim lagoon being opened lasted a couple weeks past the start of school, so our au pair took the boys one Friday afternoon after school. I tagged along with my work laptop in case she needed help with anything (she didn’t!) and so I could soak up some of the summer weather too inside the beach tent with my laptop.

After being dormant last year following some necessary, but invasive, pruning our plum tree is back this year with lots of plums! The boys have been helping me pick and eat them, and we grabbed a couple pounds to once again make some of our annual plum jam.

And then we picked a bunch of apples from the apple tree and I made apple butter for the first time. I used this recipe and would probably let it cook a bit longer to thicken it up more next time, but I think it came out really nicely. Next time I’ll also need to be more careful with my arm while chopping 5lbs of tiny apples, my elbow has been howling for days. I also need to figure out more things to do with apple butter, but so far putting it on toasted challah and waffles have both been winning approaches.

Our weekends have been rather laid back this month, one Saturday was particularly so when a transformer exploded down the street, plunging our whole neighborhood into an outage for nearly 20 hours. The explosion was so bad that it took out part of the top of the pole, there was a visible flame for about 20 minutes, and the fire department came by with a truck to close off the area until the power company arrived. Thankfully, there didn’t seem to be any other damage, and with a trickle from our solar panels (cloud day!) our Powerwalls remained charged enough to get us through the day. We were still careful about usage (oh no, I can’t do laundry or use the oven!) and it was cool enough that we didn’t need the air conditioning, but overall it was very nice to be able to get through almost a day of outage without it impacting our lives much.

We spent that Sunday afternoon in San Francisco to visit the new Nintendo store. MJ accurately described it as “a Disney store, but for Nintendo” and I was totally in love. On weekends they still have a line outside to make sure the store doesn’t get too packed, but it moved along quickly and we were able to pick up some goodies. Adam and I also got to play Mario Kart World on a massive screen, which was a ton of fun. Going with the boys was certainly a delight, especially with how much Adam loves Mario Kart, but I also snuck back a few days later to peruse things myself more slowly and buy a few things I had left behind.

In boring house stuff, we’ve been doing a lot of planning to get our storage situation more under control. We own some storage space in San Francisco, and are hoping to get that organized so we can begin to use that more effectively and empty out the garage a bit. It’s slow going, but honestly we just need to start chipping away at it. It was nice to discover a wire rack we had never opened while at the storage unit though, it fit perfectly in one of our closets here and meant I could get to work on some of that organization without buying anything, hurrah! I’ve also been working through a bunch of little tasks around the house, like changing filters, replacing a light bulb outside (more complicated than it sounds!), and replacing the steering wheel on Adam’s favorite fire truck toy. I’ll give myself a “C” on the fire truck fix, it works but I could have done better.

We also welcomed MJ’s friend Matti over for a few days this month. The boys really enjoyed seeing her, and she was kind enough to stay with the boys one night so MJ and I could take a little parent vacation at a hotel in the city. We hardly ever (never?) get away together for more than a meal, partially due to some family circumstances, but largely just a habit that was developed because we had young children during a pandemic. We really should find a way to make this happen more often.

That Saturday she was visiting was also Castro Valley Cruise Night, our annual event where classic car enthusiasts are invited to town to cruse up and down the Boulevard. I talk a lot about how much I love the events our town hosts, and this is one of the best. So many people come out, and we all love cars so it’s always such a pleasure to spend a little time at. Plus, we can easily walk there because we live downtown! So we walked over to dinner, and then leisurely walked home to enjoy the cars at sunset.

August wasn’t all roses though. Part of the reason we’ve been doing more chill weekends was because MJ injured his finger quiet badly while doing some household repairs a couple weeks ago, and the boys have been simply exhausted with their new school schedule. Adam has longer days, and Aaron is going to school every day now (instead of his previous M,W,F preschool schedule). It’s leading to a bit more grumpiness than we’re used to, and it’s clear the boys have really missed having time to just relax to TV or video games. Going on adventures is grand, but some days the heart just wants a whole lot of Minecraft and Bluey.

The boys got to see a lot of grandpa through afternoon visits all summer, but we were also there to celebrate his birthday with the whole family!

The Sunday following our return we went downtown to visit The Franklin Institute again. Yes, we had already been there, but this time we were meeting a friend and his daughter! The last time all three of us were together was long before any of us had kids, so it was quite the momentous gathering.

Plus, there were parts of the museum the boys wanted to re-visit or hadn’t seen the last time. Aaron got really into the interactive exhibits. Afterwards we went out for pizza.

On my own, I was able to take a long lunch one day to catch up with a friend over sushi and an evening to have dinner with a friend in King of Prussia. It reminded me how good it feels to catch up with friends, and there’s no reason my social life in Philly is more active than in California. I have friends in California too! Time to be better about planning outings with friends.

Later in the week I put a pause on work for an afternoon and took the boys out to the nearby Churchville Nature Center to visit the butterfly enclosure. We’re members and they have a lot of great little events, but this was the first time we’d been out there this trip. It was definitely a warm day to be outside, but not as bad as some of the other days have been, and the mist they provide for the butterflies definitely felt nice!

We spent Friday evening at The Academy of Natural Sciences in downtown Philadelphia for their event around Haddy returning to Dinosaur Hall. It was fun to see their newly installed Hadrosaurus foulkii, but mostly it was a good opportunity to visit the museum with the kids after hours. Afterwards, we had dinner at Victory Brewing Company. I’d never been to this “new” downtown location, but the vibes brought me back to the dozens of times I visited their brewery in Downingtown.

Our final week in town was rather chill, owing partially to do with some work stuff really picking up and causing us both to work a bit more than usual. But we still did a couple family visits and dinners, and over the final weekend in town we made our way out to our local model train shop where we picked up a few goodies, including some light-up tracks. Unfortunately, that evening I tripped in our den while working on some stuff with MJ and sprained my ankle, and badly bruised my shoulder. Ouch. This is the fourth time I’ve sprained this ankle (amusingly, it happens every 4 years) so I skipped the doctor and just tended to it at home. Still, no fun.

Outdoor time throughout the summer was mostly water-driven pursuits on the lawn with the hose or water guns and balloons. However, our final week there the weather cooled down a bit and allowed the boys to spend a bit more time outdoors riding their bikes! They love doing this in California but often find it’s too hot to do during a Philly summer.

Overall, it was a nice visit, and the six weeks flew by. It also felt like the right amount of time for me. I was definitely ready to come back to home prime when the time came, and our journey back to California was uneventful.

Still, we got to see Portland Head Light! One of the most famous light houses in the world, it was in my back yard. It’s strange coming to the town I grew up in as a tourist, but also interesting to see the beautiful place I grew up in through a different lens and share that with my family.

After the light house, we did go over to the lobster roll food truck, because A Bite of Maine makes my favorite lobster rolls in the world.

Our adjusted lunch plans took us to the grocery store where I picked up grapes and what we needed for peanut butter sandwiches for the boys, which I cobbled together in the tailgate before heading over to Portland. But if I’m honest, the whole situation was stressful to me. Forgetting the food stole the opportunity for us to drive by the house I grew up in to show the boys. Plus, it caused us to skip a stop at The Lobster Shack where I really, really wanted to get some fried clams and take in the view of Two Lights, the pair of lighthouses at the end of the road where I grew up. Bummer.

MJ had some errands to run, so he dropped us off at Thomson Point in Portland where we stopped at another brewery, as I do. This time it was Bissel Brothers which makes an excellent assortment of beers, of which I enjoyed their Swish Silver pale ale and the Forbidden Knowledge saison. Are we friends on untapped yet? Again, it was an incredibly chill, family friendly place and they also had no issue with the boys eating the peanut butter sandwiches and grapes while we enjoyed some delicious snacks from the food menu. Highly recommended.

Next door was our next stop, the International Cryptozoology Museum! I had the pleasure of visiting in 2016 when they were at their downtown location, and got to meet Loren Coleman that time! This time my main goal was to show Aaron the mothman exhibits, and it didn’t disappoint. Aaron is four years old and doesn’t quite understand cryptids, but when we stuffed my Mothman at Build-a-Bear, he fell in love, he now has his own Squishable Baby Mothman. The Mothman part of the museum didn’t disappoint! They have a big Mothman model, a lot of pop culture Mothman items, and all kinds of information about the legend.

Annette and Xavier enjoyed it too, so it was fun to be there with them to explore! And I got to visit with bigfoot again.

MJ was back by the time we wrapped up at the museum, and it was time to go pick up the U-Haul trailed that we’d take all my other sister’s stuff back to Philadelphia in.

Then we had to load it up! The boys went back to the hotel with our au pair to go swimming again, and Annette and I did a final trip to the local Goodwill with some donations, and she helpfully took a bag of trash with her so we didn’t have to figure out a way to dispose of it (mostly old bathroom supplies and a few old/broken things that weren’t being kept). It was done pretty quickly and we got to head back to the hotel to relax before dinner.

At dinner I finally got my fried clams at nearby Coppersmith Tavern & Table where we enjoyed a lovely time in their outdoor seating area in the gorgeous summer weather that people come to Maine in the summer for. It was our last meal with Annette and Xavier, so we said our goodbyes once we wrapped up. A long day for all of us, the boys were quite sleepy on the ride back to our hotel for our final night there.

The next morning it was time for our journey home. It was a long journey home. We had to avoid certain bridges and routes due to pulling a trailer, and our speed was capped at 55mph. What might have usually been an 8 hour journey ballooned to over 12 hours. Thankfully, the boys did great. They were generally in good spirits and took it all in stride, as much as they could. Lots of TV, Adam and I played Mario Kart, and there were some road games and car bingo played. We stopped at Target in New Hampshire to pick up a TV we had pre-ordered for the guest room in Philadelphia (the trailer came in handy!), and the boys did some shopping for new backpacks. We also made the decision to stop for a late dinner just 90 minutes from home so we could scoop the kids into bed as soon as we got home.

But we made it! We were back at the townhouse late on Tuesday night, concluding our first grand road trip.

As I’ve written, our first stop was Boston and on Saturday we left midday for the drive up through New Hampshire and into Maine. Our first adventure stop in Maine was one of my favorites, the Seashore Trolley Museum! When I was a kid, I frequently asked to go, and I now often make a stop there on my trips to Maine, so I was really happy to bring the boys. We got there a bit late in the day, but we were able to enjoy a trolley ride, and I absolutely love that journey through the forest and the boys did too.

And then do some exploring through the barns before dropping by their very fun gift shop. The weather was beautiful and we all had a good visit, even if I wished we had gotten there earlier to see a bit more.

When we got to Scarborough, we checked into our hotel and did a quick stop at the storage unit to get an idea of how much stuff we had. It was then dinner at Sebago Brewing Company, where I enjoyed a lobster quesadilla, a spectacular slice of blueberry pie, and learned that breweries in Maine can put THC in their beers. Wow, Maine!

On Sunday my sister Annette and my nephew Xavier made the drive down from their place and met us at the storage unit. We swiftly identified trash and donation items, and got through a lot more than I expected. Annette helped me load up her car with donation goods (mostly old kitchen supplies and such) and we got a lot more done than I expected. Xavier was kind enough to help MJ finish the work on wiring the trailer hitch, which I was grateful for since it allowed Annette and I to focus on storage.

Then it was off to have some fun! We had picnic area tickets to a Portland Sea Dogs game! We love baseball, but amusingly the only games I’ve been to this year were a couple games in Boston, and now their AA affiliate, the Sea Dogs. I swear I’m still a Phillies and Giants fan!

But baseball is baseball, and we had an amazing time with gorgeous weather. It was great to have a game to watch while I caught up with my sister, and our tickets included some food. And the Sea Dogs won! Plus, with the team going away for games elsewhere for a couple weeks, they held a Kids Run the Bases event so MJ and Adam got to run some bases while the rest of us cheered them on.

That evening we enjoyed dinner at The Great Lost Bear where we continued our trend of bringing our kids to drinking establishments (hah!) but truly it is a family-friendly place and I remembered it from when I was a kid. I now realize why it made an impression, the whole place from floor to ceiling is packed with pictures and lights and THINGS. It’s 100% my maximalist aesthetic, and I find a sense of peace in such chaos. The beers and food were top notch too, and I really enjoyed their buffalo fried cauliflower.

We got back to the hotel late, but I had promised Adam he could stop by a pond near our hotel before heading to bed. With Aaron asleep in the car, MJ ended up dropping off Xavier, Adam and I at the pond, and the boys proceeded to find some frogs. Xavier caught one and Adam was entranced! Those 20 minutes we spent at the pond doing some cousin bonding time was one of the most memorable moments of our trip for me.

But the trip wasn’t over yet! A whole day of adventures and the road trip back to Philadelphia were still ahead of us.