o/` Peter Murphy – Subway Epilouge o/`

I just read back through the past couple entries, boy what a week! I don’t do well under stress, and this was all quite stressful… I am so happy it’s over.

I woke up this morning with a lot of tightness in my chest, each time I breathed in I’d start a restricted asthma-like coughing fit, it hurtys %( … hopefully it’s just a morning thing (I often have cold-like symptoms when I wake up in the morning that go away before noon). But until it goes away, yuck, I hate feeling sick.

*Goes to take a bath*

That didn’t help much *sigh*

I am not in the mood to work on that php update thing, bleh… Maybe I can just zone out most of the morning and I’ll eventually get into the mood. I think it’s because today is like a monday, Myk went back to work this morning, so although it’s thursday, I still have the “i have all week to do stuff” lazy feeling %(

I shouldn’t complain so much, what’s with me today?

I started reading Dean Koontz’s Intensity last night (finished Homebody wednesday). It’s starting out ok… Koontz is a pop author, so employs pretty cheat tricks to keep the reader interested, and it’s a bit easy to read for my taste *shrugs* I’ll read it tho, the story seems pretty good I guess.

Anyway, I put together a little page that has some of the pictures from the snow storm this past weekend, YAY! Check it out: Snow Storm 2003

Bleh, I’m obviously not in the mood to write %) I am going to try to get some work done on that update php project, yes, I will MAKE myself work on it *wanders off*

o/` X – Crystal Ship o/`

They just towed the Jeep away. Hmmm, maybe some history would be good %)

Yesterday was quite busy, and I guess I started getting out of the “freaking out” mode and into the “depression” mode. But then I tried to get ahold of myself. In the end, Myk is the one who needs to worry about getting everything paid for, going to work, etc.. so what am I to do? I HAVE to be there for him emotionally through this whole car trouble, so I can’t be weak. I was able to pull myself out of the depression. We rented a car last night (Enterprise again… they said they’d pick us up at 4, instead they came at 5:30 and did all the paperwork in our doorway since the place was closed already. It was kinda sketchy. Sketchy! Hah! Anyway, we got a crappy Ford rental, decided to eat dinner… then go to the Toyota dealership to look at the Rav4’s.

We get to the dealership (after an interesting partially snowy drive in the stinky Ford, I HATE FORDS), take the Rav4 for a test drive, and it’s SOOO nice. Exactly what we need, and despite it being white, we decide that that’s the car we want (hey, we don’t have the time or money to be terribly picky here). It’s a 4-year lease, but not bad all around, we are very pleased.

Of course I have to make a HUGE fool of myself and freak out about driving it home. See, Myk had to drive the rental car back, so I was going to have to drive the BRAND NEW Rav4 home, eaaak! On big scary 309! AH! … ok it’s not that bad, I should really have more confidence in my driving skills, but I *did* feel really stupid for asking. Anyway, the sales guy said it was no problem… and we ended up just driving to the rental car place, and then we drove the guy back to the dealership. On the way back Myk and Will (the salesguy, who was young and not an asshole like most young salesguys) started talking about Jeeper (the deadish ’95 Jeep Cherokee). At the mention of what kind of car it was Will said “really? What are you doing with it?” At that point we hadnt really thought that far… and Will said that he had been looking for one, we told him it didnt run, but apparently he’s a mechanic and can get it fixed up as his “playcar” Woo! So we had someone to take the jeep off our hands! He even offered to give us some money for it and take care of all the towing fees and fees associated with changing the title over and everything. So my reluctance to drive the Rav4 back turned out to be really great for us! %)

Anyway, money is going to be tight for some time, I mean who expects to have a car die on them? The Jeep had been running great. Luckily we will survive, it’s not like when I was living in Seneca Falls with no money %) It’s nice to NOT be in a situation where you just HOPE that nothing goes wrong, and get screwed in anything ever does…

Bleh. I hate cars.

Myk took a day off from work again today so we could get everything worked out with the new car stuff, and get the Jeep sold to Will (these things are very hard to do on weekends!). I guess everything is for the best now, I mean the air conditioning in the Jeep stopped working a while back, the rear windshield wiper fell off during an icey storm this year, it had begun to rust… we did need a new car, and I am quite fond of this Rav4 %)

Best of all, we got through Sat-Today without having a single beer! YAY! Can this be proof I dont have an alcohol problem?

Hmmm what else has been going on? Isn’t this enough!? Gah… Hehe. I am feeling better now that most of this is cleared up tho, even if we have to eat ramen noodles for the next 4 months %D

So I think tomorrow I am finally going to get around to writing that PHP update thing on my site, like a little admin page (behind my firewall, I am veerrrry paranoid) that will update an “Updates” database (MySQL)… updates are the updates on the index.php site of princessleia.com. From this admin page I could add, edit, and delete any updates that appear on the index
page. After everything I’ve done with PHP recently it shouldnt be difficult %) And a friend in #goddess recently asked me if I knew of an existing script that does this (I don’t), and I offered to send him the finished files. Yeah, so that shouldnt take much time, it’s a good project to occupy me these next couple days before the weekend %)

I guess that’s it for now… *wanders off*

o/` Bel Canto – In Zenith o/`

Where to begin?

Yesterday morning I woke up, looked outside.. there were flurries. I looked at the weather forcast and they were saying then that we’d get 8 inches by monday morning, woo! Around 1 I woke Myk up before the snow got too bad, so we could return the rental car (luckily they had a key dropoff as well, so we don’t have to worry about getting there today). Anyway, I should have woken up Myk earlier to go to the car place, there was two inches of snow on the ground by the time we left home, and I guess I am spoiled by the good job New York and Maine crews do on snowy roads, PA doesnt know anything about snow removal! It was a mess! I drove the Jeep, behind Myk who was driving the little Metro.

So we’re halfway to Enterprise, I stop at a stop light, and the Jeep stalls! AH! It had *never* done that before! I get all scared, but I’m able to start it again… it stalled twice more before getting to Enterprise. We pull into the little parkinglot there, and I hop into the passenger’s seat and smoke starts coming from the Jeep, FUCK!!! (I don’t often swear, but as recent entries have shown, cars drive me to it!). I shut it off. We realize it’s not *too* bad and that we can just drive it home real quick. It stalls out once more while driving home (Myk is much better at keeping a car from stalling then I am, and he has much more experience with Jeeps), then the engine starts knocking (like when you have no oil), and something makes this huge rattling noise, we stall out again in front of a Wawa (a chain convenience store in this area), we are able to pull into the parkinglot. Things are not good. After about 5 minutes we are able to start the Jeep again, we’re only about 1 1/2 miles from home. We finally get home, park the Jeep, go inside, and go into a prolonged state of panic.

What do you do without a car? Myk needs a car to get to work! etc, etc, etc…

Finally, we get sorta calmed down… I guess we’re going to look into getting a new vehicle, maybe a new jeep? We are thinking about leasing this time. *shrugs* anyway, in the meantime we’ll have to rent a car, YUCK! Luckily the forcast is better for the rest of this week, so if we rent a little crappy cheap car it shouldnt be too much of a problem. Still, it’s expensive to rent a car, expensive to buy a car… we werent expecting this *at all* especially since we just spent freaking $400 to fix it! Pisses me off that Pep Boys didnt see that the Jeep was fucking falling apart… we are NEVER going back there *sigh*

So the stress level was much higher than we expected yesterday. Things just fucking sucked. I made some pasta, and we tried to relax, but it was difficult. We considered drinking some beer, but went for lots of caffeinated soda instead, luckily. I read for most of the afternoon, while Myk did some “shopping” for cars online. We had a fire in the fireplace, it was relaxing, but worrying about things kept creeping in the mood. Around 9 Myk said “We should move the couch so it’s facing the fireplace.” It’s a fairly known fact that rearranging furnature is an excellent cure for worry and depression %) It gets your mind off problems, and if things are rearranged it’s a nice feeling of acomplishment. Anyway, we decided to move the TV into the bedroom, make the couch face the fireplace, put the stero under the couch, hide the speakers between the turntables and the couch… (Pictures! Before and After. It’s really comfy %) and I feel much better having the fireplace as the focal point of the room, rather than the television. Anyway, around midnight we finally finished, it wasn’t just moving stuff, when we began all we knew was we wanted the couch in front of the fireplace… everything else took a lot of time to figure out %) It was nice moving everything around…

After that was finished, I sat down with a book and relaxed (see the “A
fter” picture). We had sorta silently decided not to mention the car troubles last night, and that helped us a lot. Sorta pushing off all responsibilities for the night (with the snow piling up outside we knew Myk wouldnt have to worry about getting into work this morning)… it turned out to be a fairly good night, in spite of everything.

There is close to 2 feet of snow on the ground, Myk has the day off of course, I believe this area was declared to be in a state of emergency. I love snow %) … but tomorrow we are going to have to figure out what we will do with the car situation… bleh, very stressful, I HATE CARS!!!

I guess I’m going to try to keep my mind off the troubles today… nothing is open around here, we can’t go anywhere, and worrying will only getme sick and depressed. I finished Guards! Guards! last night… started reading Orson Scott Card’s Homebody, it’s starting out slow
, but most of his best works do.

*Yawn* I’m gonna go wander off and see if there is anything to do… I gotta get caught up on the PLUG and LinuxChix lists, hmm… right. *wanders off*

o/` Nine Inch Nails – Even Deeper o/`

Ugh.

I don’t feel good, and it’s not a hangover sick feeling. It’s an exhausted I’m coming down with something feeling… Maybe it’s a combination of stress and hangover and getting sick. In any event, it sucks.

So yesterday we rented a little $15/day car from Enterprise, it has no power and it’s tiny… but cheap, and we just needed to in case the Jeep was having huge problems. Around 3 yesterday the Jeep was done (some bad hoses connecting to the radiator apparently, only $400! Ugh!). So we drove out to Pep Boys and picked up the Jeep, I drove home while Myk followed me in the little car, it was actually the first time he ever saw me drive, and although I have only gotten in one accident (it wasnt my fault, I wasnt even moving) and have been driving for about 4 years, I am not terribly secure with my driving skills… so I was kinda nervous, then I noticed that the engine gauge to see the heat in the engine was completely in the red, AH!!!! I kept driving, hoping it would be ok (home wasn’t too far, it couldnt possibly have heated up that fast, and they said everything was fixed…). So I’m driving, Myk is watching, the engine says it’s fucking hot, I’m starting to freak out, I don’t even dare try to turn on the heat, and by the time I get home I’m so scared! Luckily it didn’t do anything to hurt my driving, and Myk said I am a good driver… we opened the hood and looked in, the coolent fluid level looked low (well, what we thought looked low). So we go inside and call pep boys back. They said that the level it was at is normal, and said that there is a good chance the thermometer was broken when bad things happened friday night… so the gauge was not working properly. That sucks, but at least it’s not something major.

Myk ended up going out to get wood for the fireplace last night (and beer!), and when he got home he says “so cold! The heat in the Jeep isn’t working anymore!” FUCKFUCKFUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate cars %( Apparently when things broke on friday it killed the heat first, uggghhh. We aren’t even worrying about that right now, we can live without it for the moment I guess. Myk’s looking at new Jeeps tho *sigh* stupid car problems! But the Jeep IS a ’95, I guess it’s time… It’s still made for a stressful weekend. We didn’t end up going to the lan party last night, too much.

We watched The Matrix last night, with commentary. It was alright… the commentary people “fell asleep” during some parts, and half the time they talked about methods of filming and funny parties, so it was sorta boring at times. It was interesting tho, I still like that movie, despite it’s flaws. We ate pizza and had a fire, drank a couple beers to relax… it was a nice evening.

I am going to spend like, all day today under a blanket reading.

So as if I’m not frustrated enough this weekend, I learn that the goverment is telling people to buy duct tape and plastic so they can “seal up their homes in case of some sort of biological terrorism” … what? When I first saw this on the news I thought it was just a few stupid people being paranoid, then I found out that it was a government recommendation! It was completely serious! And people actually believe this crap! I suppose it’s important to keep the “fear level” low, so by lying to people and telling them that putting duct tape and plastic around their windows will help them survive, then I guess they can succeed in this. What amazes me is how many people believe it. I watched on the news as this young couple (both with university almuni shirts on, obviously so it would seem like “college educated people are smart and they do this too”) go into their house, and be like “oh it may seems silly, teehee, but it’s really just to make us feel better”… ok, do they honestly not realize how stupid this is? I mean COME ON! Or are they just blindly following because the “goverment said it would work”? As one of my friends put it recently “maybe you can even make it simpler, put the tape over your mouth and nose !”

This whole w
ar with Iraq thing pisses me off. Sure, they arent doing what the UN told them to, but do they have reason to? The last time they tried to do a weapons inspection (after the gulf war) Iraq evaded, and evaded, and evaded, and finally the UN just gave up… so why would Saddam think this time would be any different? The UN showed weakness, and Saddam took advantage of this. And now wonderful president Bush wants to go inand attack Iraq, without UN support. So lives will be lost before all peaceful diplomatic avenues are exhausted. It’s just stupid. So here I am, living near a large city in a time when our tyrannical leader is taking actions that will threaten us further. And don’t even get me started on the “Patriot Act” or the preposed second one! DON’T EVEN MENTION 911! This all angers me greatly, while I’m not a conspiracy theorist, thinking that we knew about/invited the ‘terrorist’ attacks on sept 11th, I think that’s over now, and Iraq has very little to do with that. (I remember a political cartoon recently that tried to show the “link between Iraq and Al-Qaeda, it was bush pointing at a picture with both of them written, Q’s circled). And I am sick of losing my rights because the goverment is trying to “protect” me.

I am in a very angry mood %) But my anti-war rant is over for today.

It’s snowing. I like snow but I have to drive it in today and I HATE driving in it. We’re going to drop off the little car at Enterprise today, they arent open, but there is supposed to be 8 inches of snow on the ground by tomorrow morning, so Myk will just drop by there tomorrow morning and give them the key. Bleh, it’s almost noon, I should go take a shower so we can go out before it gets too snowy out. *wanders off*

Well my Valentine’s Day didn’t exactly go as planned…

Around 4 pm Myk came home from work. We were sorta hungry and decided to just head out for sushi then, to avoid traffic and crowds at the restuarant (although the sushi section of this place is *never* full). So we drive out there.. get there around 4:40 or so. The dinner was great, we even tried some squid tempura (squid fried like sweet and sour chicken is fried, with the batter), it was really yummie. To drink, we each ordered a Sapporo… it’s a Japanese Import beer, very good. We ordered some cheesecake for dessert, mmmmm … they gave us a little ice cream with it, it was green and tasted like grass (the stuff that grows in your yard). Anyway, the dinner was excellent, things were so perfect!

5:20 – We’re driving away from the sushi place.
5:35 – Driving on 309 (big fast two-lane road right off the turnpike, moderate traffic as it’s the beginning of rush hour), and the heat stops working, very strange… the engine heat gauge is near the red, ummm?
5:37 – still on 309, smoke/steam starts coming out from under the hood “oh shit” as we are pulling over to the side of the road a brown liquid starts coming out from the front of the hood and splatters all over the windshield. The car is barely stopped when we pull the keys out of the car and run away from the Jeep, about 100 feet. “FUCK!”
5:40 – We decide that it’s not going to blow up, and notice a big red van on the other side of the road (there is a barrier in the center of that part of 309) with a red flashing light. Myk is on his cellphone, first he called his mother (she lives less than 10 minutes from where we broke down), she’s not home. Then he calls the insurance company, in his insurance plan he can get some towing services (like AAA), and calls a tow-truck.
5:50 – A small fire crew van pulls up in front of the Jeep look at the engine real quick and make sure nothing is going to explode… a local cop pulls up behind, and behind him a state cop, by now the sun is going down and the traffic has increased dramatically. Did I mention it’s cold and getting ready to snow? Everyone leaves, the state cop last… after he sets up a couple flares and tells us to just wait in the Jeep til the tow-truck comes.
6:00 – “Uh, I think we will still need a ride somewhere, I dunno if the tow-truck guy will take us home” … we a few futile attempts at reaching anyone (it IS V-Day night afterall), then call Enterprise Rent-A-Car… they are closed.
6:10 – The tow-truck shows up, the guy says we’re welcome to ride in the truck with him to Pep Boys, YAY!
6:20 – Jeep is finally loaded onto the tow-truck, and we get to go for a ride in a tow truck! I had never been in a truck like that
6:50 – Despite the Pep Boys being about 7 miles from where we broke down, it takes a half hour to get there, SOOO much traffic.
7:00 – Everything is settled at Pep Boys, they assure us that it’s probably just a problem with the radiator or connecting hoses, and they will run a diagnostic for $30, and call us in the morning with the status… We still have no way of getting home, the tow-truck guy asks where we live, and since it’s on his way back offers to take us there (YAY!)
7:20 – Finally home.

It wasn’t exactly a traditional Valentine’s Day evening, but I tried to look on the bright side… it could have been much worse. It wasn’t actually as cold out as it has been lately, we were able to pull over to a safe place on the side of the road, despite 309 being busy, it wasnt in a “bad area” … it’s a weekend, so Myk doesnt have to worry about getting to work til monday, and at least we got our sushi! Hehe.

We had an alright evening last night, never got a chance to get any firewood or stop at the movie store to rent a movie, and this whole car thing had us both a bit stressed out, but we tried to relax and have a nice time anyway. Myk went surfing the web a bit looking at cars (the jeep is a ’95), he kept going back to the US BMW site (it doesnt work in Opera)… and actually stumbled upon BMWFilms.Com … I remember when this site was created, a big ad campaign (well not as big as they had hoped, not everyone knew about it) where they paid some big directors a couple million dollars to create short “movies” that “starred” the BMW’s … we watched the one directed by John Woo, good stuff!

*Hears a knock on the door, opens the door, sees a box* Woo!!! Honey!!! *grins* this should be yummie. Hrm, I should go make some food. We are going to eat a dinnerish meal ’cause if the Jeep is fixed in time (we rented a car for the day this morning) we are still planning to go to that lan party. Right, so I need to make food noew *wanders off*

o/` Fisher – February 1994 o/`

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Ok neofreak, BillMeir, and all those other Anti-Valentine’s Day people … what is so awful about this holiday? Sure it’s commercial, sure it’s a holiday where you buy useless trinkets, cards and flowers that you will throw away in a week .. but how is that so different from any other holiday? Because it’s from your significant other? Just because Hallmark stores are red and pink from New Years til discount sales after V-Day doesnt mean you HAVE to celebrate Valentine’s Day by spending money. It’s a nice excuse to be romantic, it’s a nice excuse to go out of your way to show someone you care, it’s a great excuse to go to out to a nice dinner, it’s a great excuse to shop at Victoria’s Secret ;) Now I do understand that it’s depressing if you are alone.. but that’s not usually the complaint I hear. So just come out and say you hate all holidays AND birthdays … because they are all very commercial. %P

I don’t really have much else to write… I’m sorta tired. *yawns and wanders off*

o/` They Might Be Giants – I’m Gettin’ Sentimental Over You o/`

Last night in IRC (I wasn’t there, just read the buffer) some people in #13thHour were talking about how “in love” they were. This got me thinking this morning about all my previous relationships. It’s quite obvious that I have learned a great deal from each, to the point of taking the next relationship to some sort of extreme so to avoid previous mistakes. But with each relationship I was “so in love” with the person I was with. Of course I was, in any serious relationship the person you are seeing is a direct reflection of yourself… people see who you are with and, right or not, they make judgments about you… so of course you want to promote and “show off” this person. I guess going any further into this issue will debate what love “really is” and how you can love someone differently, or more, or less than another person. What this is all leading up to is that each serious relationship you have is different, and there is a point (if you are lucky) where you get into a relationship that makes you happy, comfortable, and completely open… and I believe I have found that. Now just for my own entertainment I’d like to reflect on past and present relationships.

Boyfriend #1
I was 17, a senior in high school, and pretty unpopular. I was quiet, clumsy, and just a mess… so I get online in september of 1998 and meet Rob. He’s 27, but infinately sweet… we can talk, we laugh, we share an interest in science fiction. Despite him living in Michigan, we decide to start an online relationship. As the months passed my interests changed, I started really getting into computers, while he just wasn’t interested. I had this desire to learn and grow, while he was settled in his job as an airport mechanic. He wanted to settle down while I wanted to run off and be crazy. We were “together” (met twice in real life) for about 9 months, I broke it off the summer I was in Phildelphia (that’s the LAST time I broke things off, we were ‘separated’ a couple times before that). I guess I basically learned that I NEEDED someone who shared my interests, and who wasn’t ready to lie down and have a boring life just because he thought that was what was supposed to happen.

Boyfriend #2
I must backtrack a bit. Rob and I cut things off for about a month ago before I graduated so I could “think about what I wanted” (I know what you are saying “damn women!” hehe). During that time I spent a lot of time with my online friend Dave. I met him in real life, and although the relationship wasn’t very serious for me (I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go back and be with Rob), it was for him. Dave was 25, and he absolutely WORSHIPPED me, in a very unhealthy way. He had some issues too, very very depressed, rough family life (still lived at home with his mother), and although he was a smart guy, he just couldnt cope with reality. I took pity on him, and seeing what a great person he could become I tried to help him out, tried to show him how special and wonderful he was, and of course he took that as some sort of attraction. He visited me in, um, I guess it was April or May of 1999, he was the first guy I ever kissed… heh. But it was short-lived, I talked out things with Rob and we agreed that we’d continue to try to work thinks out. From him I learned that I couldn’t spend my life taking care of someone, I couldn’t be the person who kept him out of his depression, he had to do that himself.

Boyfriend #3
This is when I took a sharp turn for the ‘opposite’ of what I had before. I met steve online while I was dating Rob… he was into computers, and little naive me thought that was cool… we shared an interest! It turns out we shared a lot of interests. From the beginning it was all me showing off to him, and him not appreciating me. Why did I see that as good? Because we shared interests, he was young (16) and still wanted a silly crazy life before settling down, and I noticed that he could easily live without me (so it seemed).
We did have a lot of fun, we tried to teach each other a lot, but deep down there was this problem… the relationship was based on me being perfect, and him taking that for granted. It got to a point where he treated me badly because he saw my flaws. I started hiding parts of myself from him that I knew he’d ridicule. I was living with him and I was forced to become more and more of a stranger to him. Obviously this all led to the relationship breaking up 2 years after it began, we just didn’t know each other anymore, we weren’t happy.

Now
With Myk I guess I went to an extreme again. I had known him almost as long as I knew Rob, and had met him in real life a few times the summer after graduating, we were close friends so I knew he had similar interests, I knew he was still a lot of fun, I knew he was his own person who could hold his own without me… but this time I wasn’t going to hide who I really was. I had aquired this realization that I couldn’t even begin to imagine spending the rest of my life with someone I couldn’t share everything with, someone I couldn’t tell my deepest secrets without being laughed at. I was very upfront with Myk. From the beginning he knew some of my more quirky tendancies, and I made it quite clear that I wasn’t going to change. And to my surprise he loved me for it. *Start of mushy stuff* I am finally able to be completely open with someone. Completely honest. I can tell him the silliest little things that I do, I can have beanie babies all over our bedroom without him complaining, instead he finds it indearing. I don’t feel the need to avoid certain subjects, or put on a “mask” for him. I can get in bad moods, I can be at my weakest moment and let him inside, I can become excited and he’ll be right there beside me encouraging my every step, I can even disagree with him and we can equally argue our positions without actually fighting. I could go on for pages, but I’ll spare you. I am finally happy!

*blushes slightly* I’m done %)

I was playing with my /etc/profile file today. It’s along the same lines as the bashrc stuff, in fact, the context is the same… and I think I could probably put the same stuff in /etc/profile that is in ~/.bashrc (I have to becareful tho, so one doesnt override the other and make things weird). Anyway, besides editing how my prompt looks I started playing around with aliasing.

alias lm=’ssh lyz@minute’

That makes it so in a terminal when I type “lm” it does ssh lyz@minute (minute is a box on our lan where our webpages, mail, and irc sessions are, so I use this often). I also wrote one that make it so when I type r2m it does ssh r2d2@minute … r2d2 is my ircbot, and has it’s own user on that box. Fun stuff %) (I put my whole /etc/profile file on my site, complete with pretty gvim syntax highlighting! /etc/profile

I was reading my World History For Dummies book last night, and it really is amazing how far mankind has come in the past couple hundred years. It’s all something we take for granted for the most part I think… I mean when I wake up I can turn on CNN and watch what’s going on in the world, it’s always been like that. Imagine being a ruler of a country and not being able to get communication to the other side of your country in under a day! Let alone foriegn policy. 500 years ago one half of the world didn’t even *know* about the other (that could be debated, but I don’t want to get into it, I’m generalizing)… Imagine having no idea what your world looks like, or precisely what your country looks like. I’ve thought about this a lot in the past couple years, and it never ceases to amaze me.

In the same catagory as that is talking to people from around the world. My father used to tell me about when he was a HAM radio operator in his teens, and he could communicate with people all over the world, and how cool that was. And now, anyone with an internet connection
can do the same, and so much more. It’s really a cool time we are living in…

I guess that’s about it for today

See which Greek Goddess you are.

*wanders off*

o/` Jimmy Eat World – Cautioners o/`

Yesterday was fun. Nita picked me up around noon, we went out to the King Of Prussia Mall and decided to grab some lunch… went to Houlihan’s, which Nita described to me as “Like Bennigan’s” … a comparison completely lost on me because I had never been to a Bennigan’s either, but I looked at the menu and they had a chicken sandwich so I was happy. It was a good lunch, the waitress was awful, she was this tall black woman who mumbled everything she said so I could barely understand her, and she only came to the table when she absolutely needed to (take orders, drop off food, give us check). Luckily the food was great, and I didn’t really need anything. Anyway, while eating we were talking about computer stuff, yay! Apparently her and her boyfriend are getting really into svcd creation, going through a lot of crap to get it good and have their dvd play nicely with them %) It was some really interesting stuff, especially coupled with Myk’s new interest in creating a digital VCR. We also talked about people who use linux and know less than us, hehe… I’ve been using linux for about a year, Nita has used it on and off for a few months, and we both agree that it’s really cool when people believe they can learn something from us. I guess it makes us feel better about our knowledge too, I think it just gets to a point that you take knowledge for granted, cant imagine *not* knowing it… so you tend to forget there are people out there who have never used/done things you have.

The King Of Prussia Mall is HUGE… I believe it’s two separate buildings, and so big that a few stores are in more than one place (two Electronic Boutiques, two Bath And Body Works’…), they even have maps printed out! It’s nice going shopping with Nita because neither of us are mall fans, and like I’ve said before, the only reason I go to malls instead of shopping online is for social interaction with a friend. But to make an afternoon of it we did lots of window shopping. I went to Bath and Body Works to buy some bubblebath and candles (the only things I actually *planned* on buying yesterday), and I was convinced to wander into Victoria’s Secret … so many nice things there, so expensive though… but valentine’s day is friday! So yes, I bought things *grins* … didn’t spent *too* much though. We also wandered into Hot Topic … I was looking for new shoelaces. Right now I have cute rainbow brite ones, but I wanted to see if HT had anything cooler *shrugs* they didn’t, they did have Chocolate Penguin Mints tho! I hadn’t tried them yet. So I bought them… the guy at the counter was obviously insulted by my preppy looks (when I came in and he asked to help I asked where the shoelaces were, he told me, then said the spongebob shoelaces and stuff was in the back.. wtf? I HATE SPONGEBOB, ty.). Oh! We also went into an FAO Schwarz store, I had never been in one before %) It was cool, YAY TOYS! Hehe. We went to a couple bookstores too, just window shopping really, I miss buying books at stores, but it really is cheaper to buy online.

It’s nice to actually have “a life” to write about… I should get out more.

We left the mall around 4:30, and Nita drove me home. Myk was home when I got there of course (he gets out of work around 3:30), I had a yummie turkey sammich for dinner (Myk had eaten ’cause he wasn’t sure when I’d be coming home). Spent the evening relaxing and trying not to fall asleep too early, hehe. I am reading Terry Pratchett’s Guards! Guards! … funny book, Pratchett rocks.

Around 9 last night my Aunt Elaine called me (the one I lived with on a couple occasion
s, we are very close). Apparently she spoke to my 13 year old sis Annette recently, and things aren’t going so great with her. I guess Annette has gotten 5 detentions since new years, and one of them was for calling a teacher a “bitch” to her face, ugh! I was always very good in school, I can’t imagine acting out like this… she is so unlike me. Well the biggest thing was that Annette is really into sports, and previously the want to play sports made her keep her grades up, but now she apparently just doesnt care. She was kicked off her sports teams until she improved her grades. I guess Elaine was very upset about this (obviously) and got rather stern with my sis and told her that she needed to start taking things a little more seriously, Annette got mad of course. Bleh. So Elaine calls me to tell me what’s up. I had no idea her acting up had gotten so bad… I mean I knew she was bragging about all her detentions (“of all my friends I have the most detentions, I WIN!”), but I didn’t realize it had gotten as far as her not being in sports anymore.

The problems with Annette are so frustrating because we used to be very close. She called me “Bethy Mommy” for *years* and I had a crapload of guilt when I moved away from home, because I knew that she’d be a bit lost… especially since my parent’s divorce closely followed. But I learned to deal with this guilt feeling, although I had acted like it for Annette’s entire life, I am NOT her mother, and I should never have had that responsibility. I guess my mother just stopped punishing Annette because if she took something away from her she’d “bug” my ma til she gave in … what kind of parent gives in to a little whining when their child doesnt get their way? Looking back I realize it was really my father who kept rules when my mother consistantly became too tired to do so… apparently my mother’s new husband has no part in raising Annette (which I can understand and mostly agree with in most situations), so Annette’s punishments are insufficiant, and she’ll just keep breaking the rules. I guess another big part of it is that my mother hated school, and so she never encourages, never helps, and never stresses the importance of education onto Annette. Again, growing up it was my father who did that. I realize that all these factors are going into how Annette is acting now. She doesnt care about school, she acts out because there it’s fun, “cool” and there is no punishment.

I was reluctant previously to critize my mother, but last night Elaine told me that my mother said “I wish Beth were here, then Annette wouldn’t act out” … Where would I succeed where she failed? It’s NOT just a sister thing, it’s purely because my mother *knows* she is doing a poor job, and knows that I would care and work so much harder to see Annette get on the right track. Of course my mother would never tell me to my face that she wished I was still there for Annette, but it bugs me that she even thought of that as a “solution” to her problems. I have my own life now, and I can’t go back to ‘fix’ things. My mother is apparently unhappy in her marriage too (hardly a surprise, she is never happy), I have no doubt that is another part of wishing I was there… she always confided (complained) to me, I am a good listener, she could trust me… and I am sure she misses that. Bah! Family!

Anyway, Elaine wants us to visit her *sigh*. I already promised my family in Maine/New Hampshire that I’d make it up sometime in the near future, traveling is just so hard to do, especially since Myk needs to work around work schedules, and probably take time off to do that. I would love to see her and my cousin Chet, but I just can’t plan any trips right now.

Bah family!!! *grumbles*

I am quite surprised with the increased number of hits on WallaceAndGromit.net, I have been getting 2-5 per day, which may not sound like much, but it is more than in october, when I was lucky to have one in a week. It’s still not very high in the google search (I’ve looked th
rough the first couple hundred hits in the search ‘wallace and gromit’ no luck), so I assume most of these new hits are either directly from princessleia.com or from guestbooks I signed maybe? *shrugs* either way it’s cool, I love my wallace and gromit sitey! *hugs it*

So an aquaintance of mine, knowing that I have experience with apache, recently asked me if I’d help him out. Sure! Why not? Apparently he’s frustrated with his inability to find a good, free, webhosting place for his little site, so he figured he could just host it at home, and instead of buying a domain name (he doesn’t have any spare money for that) he thought he’d just send people to the IP. Now Myk does all the name stuff for our sites, so I am VERY inexperienced with that, and I never actually have set up a public webpage, but I have worked a lot with apache on our home lan, so I know “in theory” how should work. So I start helping him out, gave him some pointers on installing PHP and suggested he also install MySQL just in case he wanted more dynamic content without relying on a bunch of txt files. I didn’t log this conversation, but I’ll reproduce from where it gets interesting ;) … PL2 = me … nick = guy I was helping (nick as in nickname *to protect the innocent*)

-PL2- MySQL is nice, and it’s fast enough with smaller databases so even on connections like my slow cable connection it doesnt take away from page load time
-nick- that’s cool, I’ll really need it to be fast because this is on dial up
-PL2- what? you want to host a page on a dialup connection?
-nick- yeah, it’s just a little site, and mostly text, people will just have to deal with it being kinda slow, I don’t mind
-PL2- right, that and all the other problems aside, dont you have a dynamic IP?
-nick- yeah, the dial up connection IP changes, but since I am behind my router my computer’s IP stays the same, neat huh?
-PL2- ok, your network IP stays the same, but that is not the one people will need to connect to to get to your site
-nick- yes it is, because I’ll be hosting the site on my computer
-PL2- people can’t access your internal network, if they tried to connect to your computer’s IP they wouldnt get there
-nick- why not? I don’t think I understand

This went on for a few minutes, I *think* he finally understood what I was saying, but he sorta wandered off after that and didn’t ask me for anymore help. I didn’t mean to insult him, but it just was amazing to me that someone who had obviously set up their own network (granted he is VERY inexperienced with Linux) would be so completely clueless as to the difference between internal and external IPs, and what you can and cant do with each. Maybe this falls into the category of “knowledge I take for granted”? In any event, it was an amusing exchange.

Great, so now anyone who wants to ask me to help them is going to be paranoid that I will make their experience public in my web log ;)

Honey. I love honey, and hadn’t eaten it in over a year… but then Myk suggested getting some for our tea (we drink a lot of caffeine free tea in the evenings). Sure! Besides, we both have allergies and it’s said that if you eat honey from a local place it helps you build up immunities to some of the pollen in your area. Coincidentally Myk’s friend mentioned in IRC recently that he gets his honey from a guy near here… a bee-keeper who sells his honey for *very* reasonable prices. So Myk emailed the guy, and he said he’d ship out a couple jars of his honey, then email him with the cost so Myk could send him a check. Amazing! A guy who is trusting enough to send his product to someone he doesnt know (or only knows through another person) without assurances that it’s been paid for. It made me feel good that people still exist in this world. And ever better to know I’ll be getting lots of yummie honey!

Uh, this entry has been long *poeks the people that fell asleep while reading this and quietly apoligizes.*

I should find something to do today *wanders off*

o/` System Of A Down – Spiders o/`

Ah, so last night I didnt do much. We went grocery shopping, finally broke down and bought a humidifier for our bedroom (it’s SOOO dry in our apartment). I can’t really say I feel better this morning… I am sure it takes a little while for my body to get used to being hydrated, hehe.

Yep, so today I am going out with Nita, it should be fun… I think about things too much though, last night while I was falling asleep I spent like 20 minutes trying to figure out how I was going to break a 20 before lunch today! So I could pay for my half of the lunch (Nita usually tries to pay for it things while we are out, about half the time I pay and half the time she pays, but there is always a fight for the check). I am so silly. I need to relax %)

Hmmm, I just looked at this quiz on tim123abc‘s web log, and since I haven’t done one of these god awful things in a while… eh, sure why not (please forgive me).

0. Starting time: 8:20 AM

1. Your name: Elizabeth

2. Nickname(s): Lyz, Beth, Lyzzy, PrincessLeia2, Leia, PL2, “myn”

3. Birthday: September 29, 1981

4. Age: 21

5. Eye color: Blue

6. Hair color: brown

7. Height: 5’5″ish

8. Weight (optional): 130 pounds

9. Grade: Grade A! *grins*

10. Locker number: don’t have a locker, and I’ll be damned if I can remember my high school one

11. School mascot: I don’t think we had a school mascot, but all our stuff had portland head light on it, so I’ll just say “A Lighthouse” to be funny.

*Your Fav’z*

12. Food: Pizza, Sushi, Chocolate

13. Restauraunt: Hibachi Japanese Steak House (and sushi!) I don’t eat beef, but I do love the sushi, and Ricetta’s (a pizzeria in Maine, I miss that place more than I miss my family, hehehehe).

14. Fast-Foot Restauraunt: Not a big fast food fan… does Subway count? Sure, subway.

15. Cd: It really depends on my mood *randomly picks a favorite* Peter Murphy’s “Deep”

16. Football team (College): Don’t have one, I don’t like sports

17. Basketball team: (College): Don’t have one, I don’t like sports!

18. Baseball team: I SAID, I don’t like sports!!!

19. Soccer team: I HATE SPORTS!!!

20. Store: Barnes and Noble… and the Disney Store!

21. Drink (Non-alcholic): Cherry Pepsi

22. Drink (Alcoholic): Chimay, Duvel, Chouffe (Yay for Beligan imports! I wanna move to Belgium…), I’m also quite fond of Myk’s “fruity drink”… ice + vodka + strawberry daquari mix (vodka is my hard liquor of choice you see…). I could go on, but I won’t %)

23. Brand of clothes: *looks down at her clothes* I dunno, I don’t have much of a preference as long as they fit and feel good… I guess if I had to pick I’d lean toward Old Navy though, just because I fit nicely into their men’s 28 34 khakis.

24. Brand of shoes: oooh I HATE shoes and shoe shopping, so I definately don’t have a favorite, in fact, I cant even tell you what brand my current ones are without looking *looks* ah, Vans… *shrugs* they are nice shoes as far as shoes are concerned.

25. Television show: Hmmm, maybe Law and Order… or The West Wing *shrugs*

26. Movie: Star Wars (ep 4) … I could go on for half a page, but I will spare you.

27. Actor: Johnny Depp! *grins* Al Pacino, Kevin Spacey, Ed Norton.

28. Actress: Catherine Zeta Jones! (she’s one hot chicky), Carrie Fisher (starwars era)

29. Singer: Hmmm, again, with all music questions this is a mood thing, I’ll just go with Katharine Blake (Miranda Sex Garden) for balance.

30. Band: I’ll just say Nine Inch Nails and be done with it.

*Dis or Dat*

31. Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi

32. Moutain Dew or Sprite: you spelled “Mountain” wrong… Mountain Dew

33. Party or Stay home: Depends, probably party

34. The mall or The movies: The Movies! I *HATE* malls

35 Sandals or Flip-Flops: No shoes!

36. Hat or Visor: I don’t really like either, but a hat is the lesser of two evils

37. Nike or Adidas: If you showed me a pair of each I wouldn’t be able to tell the difference

38. Swim or Tan: Swim! Why would I want to
cook myself?

39. Hot tub or Swimming pool: Hot tub!

40. Winter or Summer: Winter

41. Valentines or Halloween: No contest, Halloween

42. Phone or Computer: Computer!!! I HATE PHONES!!!

43. Aol or Yahoo: what kind of question is that? As mail? As a portal? As an orgainzer? As an ISP? As an instant messanger? Bah! NEXT

44. E-mail or Snail Mail: Both, depends on the situation, getting a real letter is cool (I still get them from my penpal) but when I want to ask my sis her telephone number email is really the best.

45. R&B or Rap: Yuck!

*In da past 24 hours have you…*

46. Cried: No

47. Hugged someone: Yes

48. Kissed someone: Yes

49. Held Hands: Yes

50. Talked on the phone: NO!

51. Said a “dirty word”: No, I’m one of those people who *can’t* swear, people laugh when I do, it doesn’t sound right coming from me

52. Showered: Yeah, my hair is still wet

53. Gotten drunk: Not since friday

54. Gotten high: Not since 2001

55. Lied: No, I’m one of those people who can’t lie, it’s painfully obvious when I do and usually ends in an embarassing confrontation

56. Gotten your feelings hurt: No

57. Got into a fight: No

58. Had sex: Yes

59. Ate: Yes

60. Drank: Yeah, water *points to the glass on her desk* who can go 24 hours without drinking? Oh… did you mean alcohol?

61. Put on makeup: Nope

*Questions about da guys* (guys reverse this to girls) ?

62. What do you look for in a guy: intelligence, humor

where is # 63?

64. Long or Short hair: Short, but scruffy looking *grins*

65. Cologn on a guy: It usually makes me sneeze, but if it’s mild then it’s cool for special occasions

66. Body spray: Wouldnt that be sorta gay? Heehee

67. Tall or shorter than you: Taller

68. Dark or light hair: Dark (mmmm italians)

69. Glasses or Contacts: Doesn’t matter

Eh no 70 or 71?

72. Hottest guy you don’t know(Singer,Actor,ect..): Johnny Depp!

73. Shy or outgoing: Doesnt matter, as long as I get a lot of attention from him (do you think I’m joking?)

74. Fancy or Casual: Casual.

75. Expensive or Average: Expensive? Do you mean rich? Are you talking aobut clothing? This quiz is so silly… Money doesn’t matter, but generally I go for computer geeks, who tend to have at least a bit of money to support their habit, hehe, so it’s not really an issue.

76. Skinny, Heavy, Medium: I’ve dated all three, and although I am not terribly picky I guess I do prefer (in a perfect world) someone who is of medium weight (just like my Myk!).

77. Dark skin or light skin: Doesnt matter, I’m as pale as a bleached skeleton so I really cant complain about the skin color of my significant other

78. Older, younger or same age: I would really like to say “age doesn’t matter” … but I’m 21, and guys younger than me tend to be confused and immature, sorry guys, I’m saying “older”

*Jus sum questions*

79. What time did you wake up this morning: Um, around 6, but I didn’t crawl out of bed til 7 (it was cold!)

80. What time did you go to bed last night: 10ish, I didn’t get much sleep sunday night, I was exhausted.

81. What did you do last night: Read, watched some CourtTV, spend some “quality time” with Myk (see #58)

82. What did you do today: Woke up, ate a bagel, made comments in web logs, took a shower and started filling out this stupid thing (what do you expect? It’s only 9 AM)

83. What are you doing tonight: The same thing we do everynight! Try to take over the world! … no wait, probably read.

84. Are you sleepy yet: No, it’s 9 fucking AM! *grins*

85. When do you have to go back to school: Quite possibly never, unless the college tutition fairy comes out of the sky and grants me 3 wishes.

86. Do you dread going back: No, I want to go back.

87. Are you getting ready for this to be over? What, this quiz? Naw, I did it ’cause I was bored.

88. What is the background to your computer: A pink rose on a black background

89. What is the screen saver to your computer: Don’t have a screensaver, this is the year 2003 folks! We don’t need them anymore!

90. Do you have any pets: Besides my computers? Nope

91. If so what are your pets names
: R2D2, Clockbot, Minute, Second, and Hour

92. What are you doing tomorrow: the same thing I do every wednesday.

93. Are you doing to send this out to anyone else: I’m just posting it to my weblogs, they can take it from there if they want

94. Dude, where’s my car: Huh?

*Your luv life*

95. Your Boo: My What?

96. How long have you two been dating: Ah, I guess you mean “significant other” Uh, Myk and I have been dating since September 28, 2001

97. Do you love him: Yes

98. Is he sexy: Of course

99. What do you like most about him: his sense of humor

100. Have you two kissed: *acts like a 14 year old who is apparently the target audience of this quiz and giggles “YES!”*

101. Held hands: Yes.

102. Hugged: I hug everyone, it’s not a special occurance

103. Do you have a crush: No, that would be called “cheating” even if it was just in my head.

104. Do they know you like them: STFU

105. How long have you liked them: STFU!!!

106. Do you think you two will ever get the hook-up: Dude, what about boo?

*Ending*

107. Did you enjoy this survey: besides the fact that it was apparently written for a heterosexual teenage girl, by a heterosexual teenage girl who can’t spell “mountain” … sure, it was better than flossing my teeth

108. Are you glad it is over: It’s not over yet, I see more questions

109. What was your favorite question: #63

110. What was your favorite section: I loved them all too much to choose

111. Any last words: fuck you %D

112: Ending time: 9:10 AM

*wanders off to play with her neopets*

o/` Flock Of Seagulls – I Ran o/`

I made a pretty screenshot: Screenshot! … it has mplayer playing a quicktime movie, irssi, a wterm, opera, and the gimp YAY! I just hadnt taken a screenshot it quite some time.

Last night we watched Taxi Driver … I am not quite sure what I think of it. Unfortunately I am leaning toward “dislike” which is sad. Don’t get me wrong, I understood the point and direction of the movie… it just bored me. I felt myself looking at the clock a lot and moving around in my seat a lot (both of which are signs I am bored). I really do like DeNiro, and the movie had it’s moments, but on a whole… bleh.

I went to bed around midnight last night, took forever to fall asleep while I thought of 45345 things to write here (all of which I forgot, of course, hehe). I am still tired, but it’s monday, I never get around to doing anything on mondays anyway.

My friend Nita and I are going out tomorrow. Going to the mall to buy some bubblebath and candles, yay for valentine’s day gifts! Sorry to anyone who doesn’t share my valentine’s day enthusiasm, I remember how v-day used to suck for me too. I think the only thing worse than v-day when I was single (a teenager) was my birthday… and not by much. Anyway, it will be good getting out of the apartment… Don’t get me wrong, I’d much rather just shop online and never set foot inside the evil mall, but I haven’t seen Nita in about a month, and social contact is good! We’ll probably grab some lunch while we’re out too.

So I checked my email this morning and “Birthday Alert!” … My “mail on birthday” script seems to be working nicely %) Good thing too, ’cause I would have forgotten KServo’s birthday tomorrow, hehee. Anyway, I am very proud of the little script *hugs it* I’m glad I finally got it finished.

So I got drunk friday night. Nothing terribly unusual. Luckily I stayed far away from the computer most of the night (popped in once to embarrass myself in #goddess by saying

-@pleia2- mmmm brrt!
-@pleia2- Beer@
-@pleia2- Beer!

But that is not nearly as silly as I usually am… and at least I didn’t post to my web logs (sorry, must point this out, i despise the term “blog” …) and say strange drunk things while pretending to be sober, or go into IRC and tell everyone I loved them. Anyway, like I said in a previous entry, I had a hangover the next morning. And despite not coming online and saying “i am so sick *complain*” … it was fairly known I’d be feeling pretty crappy. And so I got the usual lectures from people about how I shouldnt drink. Well damn why not? “it’s bad for your liver and brain.” Ok, I understand people being concerned, but I’m 21 for godssake! Bleh… I’m allowed to have fun, it’s legal, and if there really was some sort of immediate health threat I’d stop. It’s not like I’m an alcoholic, I just like to have fun, and at my age that sometimes involves inebration %)

I dunno what I’ll do today… hopefully something besides chatting %) Maybe I’ll get around to writing a letter back to my penpal Lucy… She should be having her second child any day now! Yes… maybe I will write her. *wanders off*