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Not quite 100%

I’m sick, sort of. I seem to have had this cold, in some form, for over a month now. It’s struck in different forms, the first of which was a flu where I was running a fever and had to take off 2 days of work. Since then it’s been a series of 1-2 day colds, all strung together with a hacking cough that won’t quit. I saw a doctor last Monday about the cough, he attributed it to allergies (I was feeling fine otherwise at the time) and put me on a couple nose sprays and some allergy medication. Maybe he was right about it being allergies and I’ve just been hit with another cold, but after calming down a bit for a few days the cough is back to it’s full glory and my entire body aches like I’ve got the flu. Not fun. I’d attribute all this sickness to my deteriorated mental state at the moment, but I keep bumping into people who are stuck in the same “on and off sick for a month, I am never this sick, this cold season is terrible” boat. The sore throat that’s come along with this latest manifestation is really not cool, I hate having a sore throat!

I got an estimate for the damage to the truck. About $1,750. Ouch. It turns out that the headlight did snap out of place (thus needs to be replaced) and the wheel was hit (there is a small dent) so they recommended that be replaced as well. Indeed, yesterday while I was coming back from a client site I tested the alignment on a straight road and it was pulling to the right a bit. Sigh. The doors and hood are fine, which is good, but a fair amount of replacing will need to be done. I filed a claim with insurance and will be taking the truck to the auto body shop next Tuesday – and hopefully have the truck back by Friday, I’ll be without a car for a week, but it’s not a huge deal. Oh and I’m out the $500 deductible, which is a bummer.

As I’ve mentioned, Michael and I are going through a separation. He was living with his mother, but that didn’t work out and this past weekend I moved in with Nita, who had a spare room in her house that she offered to let me stay in. I’m immensely grateful for her kindness, I’m very lucky to have a friend like her. It’s not been without stress, but I’m happy to say that I wasn’t impacted too badly as far as work is concerned (my voip phone was set up relatively quickly, and ssh tunneling is working to get into work machines).

Last night Nita ordered pizza and her, her sister (who also lives here, with her husband) and I had a movie night here at the house. It was fun, I hope we do it often. Tonight, if I don’t feel like a flu zombie, I’m planning on heading with Nita to the bar at Rock Bottom, where she’s meeting up with some bartender friends. Tomorrow night I’m heading over to a friend’s place to crash for the night before waking up at the break of dawn on Saturday to head down to Arlington, VA for D&D Experience – I’m part of the press team for AllRPG.com for this event as their staff photographer (article here). And no, being on the press team for some RPG website is not some new hobby exactly, I’ll see how this goes and we’ll take it from there, should be a lot of fun though.

And I’ve been up to lots of other stuff too. Last weekend a friend picked me up for an evening down in the city. We ended up meeting some friends at Monk’s Cafe – a famous Belgian beer bar in Philadelphia. It was absolutely no replacement for actually going to the essentially Belgian beer event (with some F/OSS stuff thrown in) that is FOSDEM, but it did quench my thirst for a good Belgian beer after all my FOSDEM-bound friends kept going on about Belgian beers. I only had a couple beers, the Monk’s Sour that I’ve read so much about, and absolutely deserved all the praise doled out to it. And a strawberry lambic that I fell in love with and hadn’t had the opportunity to order before. As far as the beer list goes at Monk’s – I’m happy to say that I’ve seen better ones. Why happy? Monk’s used to be the local be all, end all, for Belgian beers. That’s no longer the case, all sorts of beer bars are popping up around with extensive beer lists, no longer is a trip into the city required to get good beers! Although, those award winning fries they have there at Monk’s are probably worth the trip from time to time, and there is no beating that atmosphere.

Networks

Not that I have time for such things (I really don’t), but I do have them. Now spurred on by a recent rush of friends joining LinkedIn, a strange increase in my usage of MySpace (by increase I mean “used to never use” and “now login sometimes” – I blame Nita) and LinuxChix networking a lot lately I decided to post these links here.

http://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethbevilacqua

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=722073031

http://www.myspace.com/pleia2

http://www.last.fm/user/pleia2/

..yes, someday I’ll make a new profile picture.

R4 damaged

Saying I had a bad week doesn’t quite cover it, and it ended in this discovery:

http://princessleia.com/images/accident/

It was parked, a hit and run. I’m not precisely sure when or where it happened (between snow yesterday morning and darkness when I was out last night I didn’t notice it right away).

OK, it’s not that bad, and it could have been far, far worse. The truck is drivable without issue. The light is a little loose but still works fine. The hood isn’t dented, the tire and wheel are untouched. I’m just really shaken up about it because this is the first time I’ve ever had real damage on one of my vehicles and I have so much else going on that I really, really don’t want to deal with this right now. When it rains, it pours, eh? Poor R4. Perhaps even worse, I’ve been beating myself up about it. Maybe I should only park in very safe parking spots and driveways and never venture beyond safe suburbs, maybe I should have been more observant so I could have discovered it immediately and made the appropriate police report. Maybe I should live inside a plastic bubble so I never catch a cold. Snap out of it Lyz, these things happen, it’s part of life. There, I feel better now.

I’m going to get an estimate Monday to see if it’s worth filing a claim for ($500 deductible and all). It really doesn’t look bad, but as we all know with cars you can see a repair estimate soar over $1000 before you can catch your breath.

Tonight I’m going out with some friends, who are picking me up for an evening down in the city. Thank goodness.

Ubuntu US PA LAN Party – Tomorrow!

My lapse in up-to-date blogging has caused me to post quite late about this. I’m hosting an Ubuntu US PA LAN Party at the house tomorrow.

Details here:

https://wiki.ubuntu.com/PennsylvaniaTeam/Philly/PhillyLAN

Cranberry juice, sugar cubes and coffee

I switch between drinking coffee and drinking tea every year or so. The last switch away from coffee was part of a diet thing – I can drink earl grey tea straight without sweetener, whereas coffee I have to add cream and sugar (I won’t use artificial sweeteners). The other issue is caffeine content, I don’t typically drink more than one cup of coffee, and I can drink two cups of tea.

Lately I’ve been drinking 2-3 cups of coffee. I love sugar cubes, in spite of them being completely impractical, they don’t mix into the hot coffee as quickly as plain, granular sugar does, but they’re much more fun. I’m sleeping a bit less, which has led to a tolerable level of sleepiness during the evening but sometimes I nap and have enjoyed much more productivity, staying up working on projects. Living alone has afforded me a more flexible sleep schedule, no worries about keeping someone up or not coming to bed at a reasonable time. I’m on IRC too much and in too many channels, but I’m grateful for the companionship there and I don’t expect this total IRC junkie status to last forever, just while I’m feeling lonely.

Cranberry apple juice is the best. Some of the ones I’ve had in the past were too sour but Apple and Eve’s Naturally Cranberry is fantastic. I discovered it while Michael was recovering from surgery and was told that cranberry juice would help with some of the post-hospitalization recovery.

WickedFaire Photo


Wicked Danita
Originally uploaded by radio_free_rlyeh.

I was at WickedFaire over the weekend with Nita. I ended up not completely cropped out of this photo of Nita. Not the best picture of me online… but at least one exists, I had fun that day.

…even if I felt overdressed. I never wear shirts like that one (oh my gosh – low cut on me?!) but most of the women there, well, were dressed more like Nita.

EDIT: And here’s another picture! Thanks Nita.

It’s very cold out this morning

Weekends

I haven’t been in the mood to write lately, so you get a list of stuff instead.

A couple weekends ago I spent the weekend hanging out with Nita. The Friday night was spent catching up and I hung out while she, her sister and brother in law played in their bowling league. Saturday started out by meeting up with Nita’s friend Heather in Lancaster. The plan was to hit a mall and go shoe shopping for me. Somewhere along the way they decided that I needed to get my hair done, so I did!. Wow, me with curly hair? It took a can of hairspray and a half dozen bobby pins to get it to stay like that. They also helped me buy some new clothes. It’s nice to go shopping with a couple of women for a chance, I tend to be completely hopeless when I go clothes shopping. That night we grabbed dinner and then spent the rest of the evening… in a bar in Lancaster. It was a bit silly, but I did learn about a new drink – the Irish Car Bomb (pint of Guinness, shot of Baileys, drink as fast as you can). What a weekend, it was awesome for Nita to take me out like that.

Last weekend I went over for a little get together down in Philly with a few friends (most of whom I’d only known on IRC, and met a couple completely new people). It was fun, did a lot of geeking out, played some Munchkin.

This weekend I’m going to Wicked Faire with Nita, should be fun.

…and I’ve done lots of other things, and have lots more plans, lots of computer stuff (there are 4 computers in my office now – oh my!) but I’m too tired to write about them now.

Separated

Michael mentioned that he moved out a week ago, so I figured it was OK to say this. We’ve separated. It wasn’t due to some horrible blowup or catastrophic breach of trust, just a lot of issues that piled up over the past couple years and came to a breaking point.

We saw a marriage counselor for the first time on Thursday. The good news is that the therapist said that we’re handling this properly, we really do need some time apart to think and work on taming some of our own demons.

However this ends we both have issues that have been problematic to maintaining a healthy relationship and need to work on getting them resolved.

Passport!

I received my passport yesterday. Seeing as I just applied for it on the 8th and did a standard application (no rush) getting it so quickly was quite a surprise.

Now I can go to any cool IT conference in the world I want!